In Vogue

To Love and Be Loved

2012-01-01T01:43:00.000-08:00

On the first anniversary…………….

It’s human nature that tries to impress and in order to make this anniversary special I was really trying my level best...

A small part of a big day that could easily bring a smile would be gifts. Even though one part of my brain was thinking about what should I get him, the other part was wondering what he would get me.

I just want to keep wondering when it comes to him…

I would never say I know all about him. Everyone in this world is unique and he for one was always filled with surprises. I don’t want to spoil the fun by saying “I know what color he likes, I know what food he wants to order, I know what he thought about the girl who is sitting on the right side corner”. If I know everything about him then there would be nothing more to know and all I want to do is keep guessing till the end of my life.

May be we were not made for each other and yet we shared the perfect love. These 365 days was too short to express the love that we shared. For few days I was trying to understand a book that girls can never comprehend (Even after reading “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus”). I didn’t want to make mistakes when it comes to him but ever since the day I met him, I have been making mistakes in my life. The right mistakes that led me to him. For the first time I realized I need not understand someone to love them.

I always suffered from expressing at the right moment because I need time to gather my ideas and when I put forth them it would be of no use because I would have been already judged. I never thought I would meet someone who would bring back the moments again and again until I felt satisfied with my answers. You can see how confused I'm in expressing. I was too soft to hurt people and sometimes it lead to my own destruction. I was blamed for mistakes that I never did. He didn’t teach me to stand up for myself and fight this world. Instead he was ready to kick anyone's ass...any time... Accepting someone for who they are is the innermost secret wish every one of us have and I was granted it without hesitation. What else can I ask for??

Like in every other relationship, there were fights. Some big and some petty fights. With my friends I used to let go of the reason I fought for and I used to save my friendship. With him, I can stand assured that he isn't going anywhere even if I push him away. And he always gave up even before I shed a tear.

Sometimes women keep running in a race where they feel the need to show that they are best among the women he has met. I was not feeling insecure about our love so I had nothing to prove to him. He never flirts with other women and makes me uncomfortable. He had his own set of friends (guys and girls) and soon I was one among them. Then I understood only in an insecure love, women tend to get possessive and start to separate his friends from him. Some lay ground rules on whom he should talk and some give lectures on what his priorities should be. Well before I met him, even I thought the same. I thought he should know the difference between his friends, colleagues, his family and me. Not anymore. Now I know every relationship is unique on its own and we have to share our love with all.

Sometimes your heart speaks the right words but your tongue misplaces it with crap. But he always got me right. There were times when I was made fun for misspelling things. Generally there is a cheap mentality among us to make fun of someone so that it will show us elevated. I had been through all that and I had to watch my words when I speak with certain people. But with him I need not and this guy for some reason understood me without even talking.

Now coming to the point where it all started. What should I do to impress him on our first anniversary????? When I come to think of it, I have this feeling which clearly states that I have already impressed this guy long back or otherwise he wouldn’t be such a sweet lover……

Letters that weren't posted

2011-03-17T00:09:00.000-07:00

To send a letter is a good way to go somewhere without moving anything but your heart.

Hi friends!! I’m not sure how many of u have the habit of writing letters but I’m proud to say that I’m gifted at it. While talking to someone I either say things that I feel is right at the moment or end up saying nothing because I never had the courage to hurt someone verbally. I’m kind of a person who commits mistakes and then repent about it later. (So does every human being .... I guess so.. J ) But I never felt bad to apologize after realizing my mistake..I was brave enough to accept my mistake and my ego never stopped me from facing the truth. How to express yourself when you are not good at talking?? I kept on asking the question and finally I arrived at the answer. Letters !!! That's how I started writing letters and till today I haven't stopped writing. There are lots of letters that are close to my heart most of which I have never posted.

My first letter was to my dad (the only person who has never let me down for someone else) during my 4th standard. He scolded me for getting second rank in half yearly exam. I wrote a small letter(well, technically it’s not a letter)behind my science text book” I don’t like you dad...you are very bad..."I never showed it to him though and immediately I wrote a letter to my friend who got first rank "you are not my friend at all. You are my enemy". Finally, I found a way to express my anger. I may not utter a word when I fight but if that person is really important to me then they can expect a frank scolding in the form of long letter.

I started writing...

The next interesting letter would be the one i wrote to my sister. Every year when she comes from Russia for vacation, we used to fight with each other for silly reasons. She would like to watch some "hello doctor” program at 8 o'clock. I would fight with her to watch a serial at the same time. Being an elder is an added advantage. They would be always given preference. I abused her and she abused me. Finally she threw the remote and asked me to watch whatever I would like to.I couldn't digest it. I wanted her to fight. So i started scolding her ""if you don’t like me its o.k. you need not talk to me. You just come once in a year and u don’t allow me to stay in this place peacefully. Why the hell did you come from there, why do I have to give up watching programs for you. When she said I can watch whatever I want and cried I felt really bad. Then I wrote her saying that she can watch whatever she wants to. But when I scolded her what I meant was “why do you come just once in a year, where did u go when I needed u the most, why we didn't grow up together to have the same stupid taste for some funny serials, why our ideas and tastes have changed so much, why we were never meant to be together during our teenage life, why every year u come and show some light and then just walk away from me again to be let down in darkness.oh my god..I could have never said those words to you.But i could easily write it.

I started writing more..........

Next letter was the one I wrote to my professor. He wanted an apology letter from all students who copied in his exam.So we all assembled in a lab and started writing flattering letters to him.Everyone used their imagination to prove their sincerity,loyalty,honesty and whatever ty's u can fill up.I was the second one to finish it. I thought I was quick because of the experience I had in writing letters. I found the letter short but crisp enough to convince that i didn't copy much.Don’t ask me about the one who completed first.He had some strong bond with that professor. Today or tomorrow I don't think experience can compete with love.

I started writing more and more...........

I remember the one I wrote to my best friend about why we should have talked, why I was hurt, our egos, why u never shared anything with me, why it’s been always me who have been talking, why u never called up,why I was not important,why everything was just in words,why do u believe that i let your intimate secret out when a manipulative person judged u from your words,why you didn't know the last thing i would do on this world is to let you down for someone else. So many questions and all i had was hope that she would call me.Actually,we called each other at the same time from our mobile phones to each of our home numbers and ended up asking the same question" what took u so long stupid???" But once the fight was over with her i never posted it.May be she would never know at all in the future too,because there was no need for it.Sometimes good friends need not talk,they know that they would there for each other when the time comes and hence this one joined my list of unposted letters

I started writing more,more and more............

To everyone whom i wrote very bad letters...

Most of the letters that i wrote would mostly have things like "i hate u for what u said to me,i don't like u,u mistreated me,i'm not going to come back for u,i will stay strong without you" but what i meant was "i have always loved you,i can never hate someone like you,u treated me as your queen,i will come back for you even if it takes my life,there was never a day that passed without your thoughts"

Believe in words.Believe in people.When u fail to express yourself by your speech,sit and write.Inspire people by your writing.Words can make wonders.so get out of the shell and break your silence for someone you love.

“I have made this letter longer than usual, only because I have not had the time to make it shorter.”

So i started writing more,more,more and more............

To Love... a poem in tamil

2010-11-02T22:43:00.000-07:00

un kadhalai sumandhidum en idhyam sollum ayiram kadhaigal ,

en puviyaiyae matrum nee idhamai pesum varthaigal.

un uthatil irundhu uthirindidum kovamana sorkal,

en vazhvai unnaku alithuvita urimai pathirangal.

un ninaivu mattumae en vazhvai needikum mathiraigal,

en suvasam kuda un vasam kondu vazhum sila nodigal.

kalangal kadanthalum kuraiadhu endhan anbu,

kurainthal niraivadaiadhu endhan vazhvu!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi friends..its been a long time since i wrote a poem..
i have just tried it..comments are welcome..i mean... on poetry!!!!
If you all think its good,then i can continue with my mokka poems... and please if its bad do let me know..so that i can try something different too...
thank u all....

Pessimism at its best

2010-10-17T12:56:00.000-07:00

“I'm a pessimist because of intelligence, but an optimist because of will”

I don’t have anything to achieve in this world .All I have achieved so far is hate. I have nothing to share because I lost the trust on people. I fear whatever I say would be aired in public. I have nothing to give since I lost all my possessions. I don’t have hope to continue further, to try once more. I want to give up because I couldn't bear the pain. I’m not feeling jealous anymore. I understood that I lost it. I couldn't come back to reality since I lived in dreams for long. I couldn't wait anymore; I’m not impatient but I learned it’s not going to make things better. I feel death is much better than living a cursed life. I lost more than I gained .I realized that everyone used me for their selfish reasons. I was told plenty of lies to believe that I was wrong all the way. I was deprived of sleep when I was considered as third person. I felt exhausted when I didn’t have any more love to give but lots to accept. I learned being honest is no more the trend in this cunning world. I was helpless when I lost my career. I was bankrupt and I didn’t know which way to go. I became directionless when i was financially down. I lost faith in everything because I was cheated beyond imagination. I couldn't believe in words because everything is lies here. I can no more bear the insults you throw at me in the name of love. I realized that I fell in love with the wrong person. I never realized you will leave me so soon. I feel that I have been manipulated by selfish people. I feel suffocated when people hate my presence. I realized people are trying to do a favor by talking to me. I couldn't bear the thought of people pitying me. I have been strong for too long and it’s time to break into pieces.

Everyone in this world would have crossed this state. It’s the state of emptiness; the state of loneliness. At least for five minutes you would have felt this in your life time. Why did I do it? Why didn’t I apologize? Why did I give up so soon? Why I couldn't understand him/her? Why is it so difficult for me alone? Why did he/she lie to me? Why do they dislike me? What is wrong in my opinions? Why am I being ignored? Why did he/she smile when they really hate me? What’s all this conspiracies? Why is it me who should always compromise? Why are people so cunning? Why do they try to separate people? Why did he/she come between us? Why did I love him/her so much? Why I didn’t concentrate on my career? Why did I underestimate the foxes around me? Why didn't my friends call me when i was stuck up with life? So many questions… so many thoughts…..But you will never know the answers. You don’t want to blame anyone. All you want to do is just run away from your problems and get shelter somewhere.

Analysis:

This post is a combination of feelings I gathered from so many people when they were vexed up with life. The people involved in the survey where those who blame themselves for mistakes and not those who try to blame it on others. If we notice the first paragraph it’s completely filled with the word “LOST”.A person who is depressed tend to feel that he/she has lost everything in life. It may be a period of five minutes but it would be the most devastating time of your life. Generally the post is about people who had a break up in love, family and career. It’s very easy to cross this five minutes but it will definitely leave a mark in your life. “Everyone make their own mistakes and so do I”. Just believe in that and I think it would be easy to cross all hurdles in life. Smartness isn’t about covering up your mistakes but it’s about learning from your mistakes. It’s good to know a bit of pessimism too so that we can tackle it.In fact a pessimist will never get disappointed.So here we go... We can be a bit of pessimist too but never prolong it. Have FUUUUUUUUUUUNNNNNNNNNNN......

To Forgive a Friend.............

2010-09-23T16:23:00.000-07:00

To forgive a friend....

I always thought we'd look back on our tears and laugh, but I never thought we'd look back on our laughter and cry.

I always wonder how some people make lot of friends.Being an introvert i make very few friends and stay close to them.

(In TAMIL: oorla pathu pathananji friend vechirukavan ellam sandosama irukan,orey friend vechukitu nan padra padu irukae nu neraya peru solradhu en kadhula vizhudhu)

The chemistry in any relationship lies in love whether its ur friend,ur girl/boy friend,ur family or whoever it is.Any relationship ,just name it.

Love someone truly and believe me they would never walk away,bcoz they cannot.

Have you ever realised as years goes by u will not be making best friends but just Hi-Bye friends and people whom u call your best would be someone from childhood or college but not someone from your present.The reasons why were aren't making best friends at present or after being a grown up is discussed here.Not just to read & forget but to correct ourselves.

(1) I remember fighting with my best friend while i was studying 3rd standard.While everyone where singing some prayer song,me and my friend were rolling on the floor fighting each other.

Ofcourse,after an hr we were kneeling down on the corridor.The thing is i don't remember the reason why i fought with her,just the way i fought with her.Recently,when i had a fight with my friend,i remember the reason i fought for,the mistake that was made and nothing else.Well,that makes the difference.

Remember the fight not the reason,because after some years,reasons would become silly but u would have already lost ur friendship.So when ur friend isn't normal with you and if u feel the distance is growing everyday,don't hesitate to talk.Just make a call and ask what happened??? These two words really matters when the person is expecting it!!!!!

(2) The main thing after the fight is who should talk first.As far as i remember when i had fight with my school friends,the time i took to open up a conversation/fight again was just 20 minutes or at the max an hr.Nowadays,it takes some days to talk to each other.According to me, the deciding factor is love here.If you like someone truly,the time you take to apologise will be really less.In this case,love is inversely proportional to time. Another main reason that we don't take an initiative is because we all have become balloons filled with EGO.

y should i talk first??? I don't need you at all in my life!!!Sorry dear,ur presence is unwanted here!!!I'm busy now,can i ignore you for some more time.( you would have heard things like this..am i right???? )

Hence,the second main thing is Give up your ego and be the first to apologise.Losing ur self respect for a friend is nothing compared to losing a friend.While earning money,we don't see self respect.We fall at someone's feet just for a materialistic thing.If an apology can win back your love y not try it????? Rather than sitting and thinking about the good times u had,u can try and have more good times in the future.

(3) The next thing in forgiving a friend lies in acceptance.No one starts a day thinking that i have to hurt my friend today.we are all human beings who commit mistakes and repent about it later.So,its fine to make mistakes but its bad not to accept a friend after an apology.Your friend has got complete rights to hurt you because the person whom you have let to hurt you will be the one you are in love with.Hence,forgiveness starts with acceptance.

Accept a friend when they ask for forgiveness.Don't behave as if you are Queen elizabeth/Tata birla.The truth is even they know to value relationships.

CAUTION IN THE AIR:

As i said,to err is human. so watch out for wrong people too.There would be some who would never even care about your existence.Leave being their priority ,you wouldn't even be considered as an option.Don't just waste your time and energy thinking about them,when you don't exist for them.

But keep this is a last option in all ur relationships.If u have endured more pain than happiness and if u have lost more than have gained out of that relationship,then its better to save your pride rather than the relationship.But let it be the last option.

You needn't gain anything from a relationship but love and care returned has more value than un reciprocated ones.So decide yourself whether to save ur pride or relationship but let the preference lie in building up rather than breaking up.

All the best for all good relationships out there...Sometimes good relationships doesn't need apologies but if an apology can rebuild things just don't think about anything.Go... GO... GO..... make a call and be happy...

The day i met him !!!!!

2010-08-21T18:00:00.000-07:00

Three years back... june 30th 2007,saturday....

It was a rainy day ,no wonder the roads were filled with water and people were driving with sour faces...well.. except me.....

Rain always made me happy and getting muddy never spoiled my mood...

i was driving my scooty pep fast to reach the public library at egmore before 5 and when i reached there i was completely wet....

after drying my clothes in the corridor fan i started to walk to the lift

I generally avoid using the lift but that day i didnt want to walk all the way up to second floor...

when i reached the lift to press the button ,a guy rushed to the spot and pressed it in a hurry...

i just turned and gave a sharp look at him...he was tall,well built,dusky and was carrying some heavy books in his hand

what the hell???? y did i look at him like that???? was the question that was driving me mad for some seconds...

the way he projected himself to have been sorry for annoying me was the reason i fell for him initially...

untill that second i never had belief in love at first sight (truly speaking i didnt have belief in love itself)

he mumbled,"I'm sorry!!!! i was in a hurry so only ..couldnt avoid it...u know closing tyme at 6... sorry again"

oh!!! thats ok... it happens..

the lift door opened and i got the sudden urge to run away from him...i stopped for a moment thinking whether to use the stairs..

"have u decided between lift and stairs??? "

i was shocked !!!!!

"I ... yeah.. nooo.. actually yes... i'm coming in lift "...(God this guy can read my mind!!!)

he said "It's a nice weather outside and it seems like u r in love wid rain...."

yeah.. i'm crazy about it... ( Let me keep the discussion short...)

he smiled and left the lift and i was standing there for some time wondering why did i come to library today...

the lift door was closing and so i had to move out... i reached the tamil literature session searching for " vengayin maindhan " by akilan...

Luckily i got the book so soon and i was moving around to see if there is any intersting novels around... actually i saw the guy in the same section thrice...

well the books werent interesting anymore and it was 5.50 so i moved to the counter to get the book checked out...

he was standing beside me,surprsingly he didnt have any books in his hands now... all he had was a disappointed face..

i couldnt hold anymore,i turned and asked "aren't you taking any books?"

"how could i,if all i want is wid you!!!"

what?????(does he think like me toooo ??? )

"I mean i was looking for the same book u are holding right now in your hand"

I breathed a little... " oh !!! were u looking for this.... do u need it??"

"If you dont mind ,yes it would be helpful"

I laughed to myself and said "I have read it twice so u can have it"

he smiled back ..." i have read it twice too,but i got the feeling to read it again today"

"hmmm... if u need it that badly u can have it,but instead of returning it in the counter return to me next saturday"

"Thanks a lot... can u come on monday,same time"

I can .. but y???

"I can see that u are also eager to read the book... i will complete the book by tomorrow if u can come on monday...."

" yeah that would be better..okay"

I gave the book to him and after he signed the form we reached the parking place together.. he was taking small steps and i was trying to rush to the spot..

I could see that he wanted to speak something but he didnt and i didnt want to start a conversation..

we reached the parking lot and i started my bike.. when i was about to start my bike...

he said " by the way i'm elango... may i know ur name"

I never thought he would be the one who would walk beside me throughout my life....

As u live it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2010-08-12T13:45:00.000-07:00

Life lessons

(1) Sometimes people may not offer explanation for their action,but do believe that they have a reason for it...

(2) When u r in anger write a letter scolding the person and post it,but forget to mention the TO address...

(3) If someone says you to forget past,kick them... there are things from past that will help you live a better present...

(4) Letting go does make you stronger to let go of people often...

(5) Whenever you feel like u r on the edge of something..just fall.. dont think too much about it...

(6) Think several tymes before making a decision,but don't step back from your decision..

(7) Fall in love often..again and again... every minute and every second ... with the same person....

(8) Remember to make mistakes because they are the only way of growing up....

(9) Don't try to understand things that u can't really understand...

(10) Trusting everyone is complete madness... but don't lose the trust u have already placed..

(11) Situations may show a person in wrong shadow....never get lost in the path of darkness..

(12) Stand up for what u truly believe in... Giving up in the middle means u haven't got enough faith..

(13) This is a short life..don't live on some ones opinions... make most of it by living independently... u should be the ruler of your mind...

these are the lessons that life is teaching me in a very short span... i learned it and i'm sharing it... and if u people have learned anything different do let me know :) :)

Hangover-are u feeling sick about it???????

2010-07-01T07:21:00.000-07:00

Worried about hangover?????

"When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading"

Hi friends!!! this is a post dedicated to my friends who drink and regret about it in the morning.definitely not because they dislike drinking... its all because of HANGOVER !!! dont worry friends...definitely its not an advice post..

I have something really interesting to share with u ppl that will help u to overcome hangover in a different way....

there have been enormous cross-cultural variation in the way people behave when they drink. According to a study, in certain societies( UK,USA,Australia) its mostly associated with anti-social behaviour and violent activities, while in others ( Mediterranean and certain south American cultures) its mostly peaceful and harmonious...

Similarly, there are different hangover cultures followed throughout the world......Lets know about them so dat we could use it wisely....even if u don't like dem, u r always left with the best choice...an hangover peg( elixir of life for so many out dere!!!!!!)

are u drunk well enough to read this????

China:(Suzui- in Chinese it means after drinking)

Lets start from a place dats more populated.... Chinese people have the habit of drinking strong green tea to overcome the effects of one too many....

well...if u r really health conscious u would be surprised to know dat it helps in reducing fat ....

Green tea which had its origin in china 4000 years ago is solely made from leaves of Camellia sinensis which has undergone minimal oxidation during processing....Unless decaffeinated ,green tea is more of caffeine....hence it acts as a stimulant like coffee and clears ur mind.....Though i don't understand what they are talking but their idea seems perfect...

Germany:(Katerfrühstück- hangover breakfast in German)

Germans are generally famous for their indulgence in music and arts... oh are u people wondering about what the hell it has got to do with dis post...

so here we go.. its a place famous for beers...Germany has 1300 breweries second next to USA which has 1500 breweries....generally people get over their hangover by drinks but Germans follow a different rule...they get straight into breakfast...they consume herring fish which has rich source of vitamin D..the dish is called rollmops....

The word rollmops refers to a pickled herring fillet rolled into a cylindrical shape around a piece of pickled gherkin( its kovaka in Tamil,dhondakaya in Telugu,parwal in Hindi),green olive with pimento(chili pepper) or an onion... well i would not prefer dis way guys and girls.. herring fish has both carcinogenic agents and fatty acids that can cure cancer...

y do u have to take risk...

its better we can stay with tea for sum time....

United States of America:(its hangover in English.. sorry no translation)

well... these people have wide range of drinking habits and its different in every place.....but the most general hangover tip among Americans is available abundantly...they use tomatoes and eggs... easy and cheap right??? the drink they make with it is called as prairie oyster...

well the recipe goes here...

Ingredients for Prairie Oyster, 1 egg,1 teaspoon Worcestershire sauce,salt,pepper,2 dashes of Tabasco sauce

Crack the egg into a glass, leaving the yolk unbroken. Douse it with Worcestershire sauce(fermented liquid with barbecued meat), a sprinkling of salt and pepper, and Tabasco sauce(made from capsicum)

It can be considered as cocktail of a sort and its must to consume it very quickly(real quick)..... Some bartenders tend to add little booze to it in order to give hair-of-the-dog effect...

Readers be aware that consuming raw egg is a health hazard..... so far tea is gud right???????

let me continue dis in my next post where we can see some more different cultures too....

The day i met him....

2010-06-10T12:38:00.000-07:00

Being a 21 yr old, i never had the privilege to confidently say" yup,i have grown up !!!!!" among my friends who still remark me as "a kid who has difficulty in understanding things"

Waiting:

what if i happen to meet u now ( i mean when i have difficulty in understanding!!!!).... after all i was the one who have been looking for you ..among thousands in a crowd,hundreds in a street,tens in a party....to single u out, as my man...my love.. :)

dese long 21 years(not exactly but approximately).....

so it would be better if u find me....its not hide and seek .. damn it!!!! and we can't be loosing each other for 21 yrs .....

The days passed and I had to reach a bitter conclusion “I’m not going to meet u at all"...

Well.......(actually i'm not feeling gud about it... but i should start my next sentence...so here we go....:) It took a lot of will to arrive at such a pessimistic conclusion...

Especially when it concerns Ur dream about ur perfect man...

am i waiting?????

Expectation:

What do u think of Ur perfect man??????? The question that often comes up in girly discussion...

The most choosen answer is "he shuldn't drink,smoke or shouldn't love sumone else and sumtimes ppl add ,he should care for me".....well thats what my brain says too (weird!!! does it actually work!!!)...

my heart says an another different story that often people fail to hear or pretend not to hear...

( I'm not saying everyone but a few ppl!!!)

so what does my heart say?????? what if u don’t love me as much as I do??????? (A question thats not answered mostly... )

As most people are vetti dese days, u would have looked upon famous love quotes for ur gtalk-FB stats and everything would have pointed u out the same thing....

love as much as u can and never expect anything in return... if he is urs he would come back after being with some one... well that’s what they mean..

he isn't a bird that returns to its nest in the evening.....It's a one way traffic..if he goes,he would never return back....( sometimes face the truth!!!)

Sorry to say ....people are writing things that would convince you and I’m not the one who gets convinced easily....

If I love someone in kms I expect at least a mm in return.... do I sound like an engineer.... at least now????

Do i actually expect anything apart from your love??????

Imperfection:

I still don’t get it...my brain says he is imperfect...but my heart always says he is perfect for u....an illusion dat may drop down soon or never...

depends on the girl... what if i choose not to let it down???? what if i really want to live with the fact that u r my perfect man????

well...it again takes lot of optimism to arrive at such conclusion.....

will u be perfect for me????

Fight-- oodal--jagda(i dont know dis):

I know a day would come where i would literally beg u to leave me alone ... I would say carry on wid ur life,so that both of us can be happy.....

I would say that with a perfect expression even u may believe that i despise u.... ( girls are gud at drama!!!!)

when my heart is actually saying u to stay back for just this one tyme and i promise "i will make u feel that u have never been loved like this before"

will u stay back????

Will u stay and put up a fight so dat we could be normal again... to be loved needs some kind of luck....

Am I lucky enough???

Possessiveness:

There are women who would say "i'm possessive ...so would u stop talking to other girls,atleast before me".....

Dont worry...I wont put u up in such difficult embarrasing position...

my idea is so simple..if even i think that u r talking to a women with or without my knowledge, u better dig ur grave and den talk to me...

if she is ur colleague ,its better if she knows that there is a wall between ur room and hers...

if she is ur friend ,let her know the place she stands in my home....

it would be more advantageous if she is my friend too so that she can recieve free advice on how to behave ....

sometimes i even worry about your mother...( not about her health :) :)... ) i just want to make sure she doesnt love u as much as i do...

do u actually know me????

Intimacy:

I always wished for the days to be shorter and the nights to be longer...former because i dont like to work...latter bcoz, I can walk alone.....

Its a pleasure to walk alone.... u know wat ???? It can be made more special if i have u by my side... unless the reason for your presence is not the following

Being bored,not feeling sleepy,to reduce weight, indigestion(dyspepsia...technical term)...I have heard this reasons from my so called friends :( :(

will ur presence be true???

I have lots of questions to ponder and answers to find...

But i have just a single belief...

when i'm out to find the answers u would be dere by my side ... helping me out...trying to find us in the world...

Untill then ...........................

Note: This is not entirely about me and i dont deny that its mostly about me... I started with the title the day i met him....but the post didnt run along that path...

are u people confused... so I am.... its a mixture of past and future and nothing present... so read it for fun .... and i think this is what girls often think .....

Trust in love

2010-01-04T17:08:00.000-08:00

The hardest thing to do is watch the one u love,love someone else....(dont lose ur love !!!!!)

Every relationship in this world is built upon trust and so is love...

but love fails these days due to lack of trust.....

either its men or women they expect things from their partners but they don't think about what they should give to them...it was men(mostly!!!) who never had understood the importance of a relationship..to them there is always an another girl who would satisfy his needs...

But today the world has changed and so have girls in the name of modernisation...they too have started thinking that there will be another guy with a better wallet(completely loaded)...

Love has become a kind of Pass time ...Men want to love beautiful girls and women would love to have a secure boy friend...if she loses her attraction or he his money ,love fails over there....

After expressing their love,though they discuss about marriage sometimes,they always do a second calculation on their minds ....What if this relationship Fails!!!!so they just try to put rules between them so that they can save each other from the wrath of other one when it fails...hence,love starts these days with a belief that it may fail...no one have the courage to take it up till marriage and even if some do it there are other forces to bring their hopes down....

but thats on the final stage...so whts initial!!!!!!!!!!!

What u should be thinking when u fall in love

ofcourse ur lover

next!!!!!!!tharavatha!!!!!!!!!!!

think about ur family...do u have the belief that u can convince them(if yes then go ahead)

else (i will never say stop loving him/her!!!!!!!!!)

Do u think ur love is greater than ur love for family?????(if yes go ahead)(if no assume urs as attraction and get along with life)so lets come to ppl who said yes!!!

marry the person u love more than the people who gave u life,but make sure that belief lasts forever....

A girls trust should lie on the fact that he will never turn me down for another girl because my love for him would never allow him to!!!!(Girls u can score by ur love not by ur beauty bcoz it may not last forever!!!!!!!!!)

A Guys trust should lie on the fact that she will always make my family happy and whatever she does and says is for my own gud(guys here is a note!!!!girls are selfish when it comes to family so dont worry!!!!!! just follow them there and u will be fine)(guys can score only by proving that u are spending ur time entirely for them and ur kids)

Either its love or marriage it depends upon ur initial trust on each other...if there is a hole in it,its better u break it earlier...if it lasts long,it will definitely break one day, making huge wounds on both sides....

love each other but make sure to trust the person u love and make him/her to trust u......

all te best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Trip to delhi Part 2

2009-12-15T22:12:00.001-08:00

Hello friends!!!!!!!!!!! it has been quiet a long time so i just wanted to write something that would help me to regain my blogging sense,which has left me for a year....memories are made fresh by recollecting them again.And here is one such sweet memory...my trip to mathura was remarkable..It was not because of god but the incidents that happened at mathura..mathura being a religious place of conflicts had too much of protection.so we are not allowed to take cell phone,sim cards inside the temple...On the entrance we had a counter where they asked us to pay 10Rs for each item that we palce in the safe ..Me and my sister went into the temple after they checked us ..then arshed came after five minutes.But ammu didnt come.....it was nearly 15 minutes and i was imagining terrible things.....then he arrived and explaines us about his simcard problems...the problem is he has been provided a lot of promotional Sim cards at his office and he was carrying them..at the safe counter they asked him to pay 10 rupees for eachof his sim card(nice maagement!!!!!!!!!!) u know what he did finally..he just put all cards in a bundle and threw the bundle near dustbin and came inside..he could have paid 10 rupees for each of the cards because they are worth it...sometime i wonder he does things in reverse order....
after much conflict we went inside..the place was gud..its a symbolic representation where hindus and muslims live together..we saw all gods and statues of lord krishna and his lovely ladies...then they were selling some sweets as prasadam..we bought some of them to be offered to people back at home..Then,they offered us some kind of rice prasadam...we all ate it and decided to hurry up for shopping...On the way we picked up the cards ammu threw down..It was getting late, but we were hungry and we wanted to do some shopping..as usual arshed was hurrying up,but in that cycle gap we bought some krishna photos and came to a road side shop selling samosas...all the items there were made with pure milk products...i had one that was made with panner..ammu and bhava were buying tea...guess what???arshed was questioned by the guide in hindi that we ppl are late...but ammu wont leave that tea shop since my sis was very much interested in the small tea pot they are offered...they both were carrying all the teacups and they rushed up to the bus.. They bought one for arshed too,since he was angry that we came late,he refused to take it and sat alone..The actual circumstance was that most people arrived only after us....i was sitting with my sis and we were speaking about ways to console arshed.After working out a great plan ,i went and sat next to ammu to speak about family matters and in the mean time those stupid friends got together and gave a nose cut to me as usual...On our way back we saw so many malls and theatres ...we reached there by 9.30 and we decided to get parathas from the hotel that was located at the end of the road...arshed went and had some time with his friends and came late..he arrived at 10.30 after that we had dinner and then watched tv for a while and went to sleep...the next day would be our final day in Delhi ...so we decided to make some shopping in the morning...we went to the nearby market(sorry bad memory i forgot the name but things were cheap there)...
At first we purchased a Bag to take our things back home and then we got a red colour saree for mom...then we purchased shoes,formal shirt and cap for arshed since he will be joining in a hospital as a duty doctor soon.. ..he got angry since we are spending for him.. convincing him took a great deal of our energy..we bought some hand bags and then arshed bought a sunglass..at first the sales man said its fastrack so its nearly 500 but finally he gave for 50..thts delhi...just 10% would be the actual rate...we had some juices and took an auto to reach home..on the way we thought of going to McDonald's but skipped the plan in the last minute and decided to order pizza on reaching home...
we had lots and lots of stuff to pack ,since my sister was using lots of books..she asked for some kind of box in her institute and the supervisor mahesh got us one big box in which we stuffed most of the books along with my sister's mickey mouse writing table...my sister was bidding bye to her delhi friends and in the mean time we were packing...during her lovely days in delhi my sis had tv,set of box and was living a comfortable life..we tried our level best to get rid of that BIG TV connection,but unfortunately no use..we just carried the instrument and left the antenna outside the house..u know finally we sold the tv to house owner for half the rate....it was a great man's idea(ammu!!!!!!!!!!!)..then we started packing..believe me we could not put things into those bags...we were struggling and we were getting ready for the train too....finally we packed the things into 17 bags and brought them down from 4th floor and kept it in the taxi.....the time has come for us to leave delhi...it was unfortunate we had just 4 days but they were the most memorable days of my life....i have still more to go about our journey in train ...let me put it in another post..

Improper management

2009-05-13T02:06:00.000-07:00

hi people of India!!!!!here is an awareness post for you......most of us love to travel...are you a person who covers long distance in trains.......then this post is not for you...if you travel by bus for nearly 8 hours,10 or 12 hrs,that too at night, then here we go.........so how do u start your journey...pleasant smiling face,wishes from your family and ba byees from your loved ones and finally you end up with sour face and yow will wish to god that "please,don't make me to travel again on bus"......... why this happens and actually what is so worse...........whenever there is a long journey the buses will be parked in some restaurants between source and the destination for some 15 to 25 minutes depending upon the distance...you can have some snacks,dinner or attend your nature's call as you wish.........do the bus drivers park in decent restaurants where we can have proper sanitation facilities??????the answer is no!!!!there is a general complaint among the public that they park in hotels who offer free foods for the drivers...the interest of passengers are not taken into account.....those places are filled with dirts, waste products....they provide food products that lack quality...sanitation at a very poor state where you will not able to even catch your breath....the entire area is filled with cigaratte smell as if its a smoking area...apart from this people urinate on the way between the buses and so u will not even have the desire to get down from the bus....the twenty minutes will pass like u are made to live in hell...just for their sake they are irritating us ...when will they will have a proper management from the transport side who will eastablish rules for all this non sense....if we are going to suffocate for breath it makes me think whether we live in a democratic country?????who will be able to question this people....all lies in our hand....we shoiuld only question themm........they can't make us die in bad odour when they enjoy their lunch........so people wake up...wake up to rise against these illtreats done to us...............

Right to Vote

2009-05-13T01:43:00.000-07:00

hi chennaities!!!!!!!!!!! today is the right time for every indian to fulfill his right to vote...if you step aside from your rights it means you are against the democracy of India.....India being the largest democratic country is conducting elections in different phases in differnt parts of the country...today along with other states tamilnadu is casting its votes to select the government at centre....Congress,Bjp,Dmk.Admk,Pmk and so many other parties have selected their candidates for election....whom to vote???????this is the most difficult question that should be answered today....if u ask me i have no answer...but my opinion is always the same...irrespective of whether the candidate is educated or uneducated , politicians place the interest of people at the last position...the day will come where we will be able to exercise our vote without confusion....the election commission should handle a booklet to all citizens who are voting that contains the information regarding the candidates of that particular sector....the booklet should have all the details regarding his properties,bank balance ,educational qualification,his achievement in the recent years,opinion about him collected from the ward people etc....only when these kind of systems exist we will be able to know better about the candidate.....let us all wait for the day to comee...now let us all vote to eastablish democracy in India......your vote counts !!!you are the deciding person ...you should only elect our prime minister.......vote!!!!! vote!!!!!!!!!vote!!!!!!!!

tour to nagapatinam,velankani and chidambaram

2009-05-12T23:54:00.000-07:00

hi friends !!!!!!!!recently i went on a tour to nagapatinam,velankani and chidambaram the places which marks the three main gods of our country INDIA...the trio lies along the coast and can be visited easily in a day's tour...after visiting those places i understood the culture and diversity of our country...we are all still united and we will never fall to terrrorism....let me give a short nap on my visit...our first visit was to nagapatinam in order to visit the nagoor mosque.....my mom had some special prayers to do.....our travel was made comfortable by a lovely family and tata winger... we reached the nagapatinam beach area at morning 7 o'clock...it was really wonderful to look at the early sunrise and enjoy the beautiful scenary...but i felt devasting to look at the place that has lost so much of liveliness due to tsunami...have you people ever been to marina after tsunami...you would have noticed one thing definitely...we chennaities have forgotten the past sorrows and have started leading a normal life where fun and triumph against tsunami is well shown....but nagapatinam which received the worst of all tsunami strikes is still under rejuvenation....there was not even a single shop to purchase ,a lively face to talk with, a restaurant to eat, a roof where we could rest..anything that could remind us about our past ... the place was surrounded by souls that left this world with lots of love and wishes at heart...though the incident happened at 2006 we still bear the marks of it in nagapatinam....the spirit of nagapatinam and its beauty is getting reduced every second....if the government authorities take necessary steps then definitely we can get back our lost soul of nagapatinam....reinstating the place would be the right thing to do at the right time..its the way to show gratitude to the people who have lost their lives in tsunami...they all would want us to be happy and show to nature that we would be united under the single roof of india.....after the visit we went to the mosque and did prayers to the god...The mosque has been restored back to its form recently by the offerings made by the people of nagapatinam...the three entrances and the 40 pillars have been redecorated with tiles ....whenever you visit nagapatinam do offer your help to bring back nagapatinam to its liveliness....our next stop was at velankani to visit the church..we lighted candles and offered our prayers to god..we immediately travelled to the beach and took a short nap...it was really to stay long so we had to leave as soon as possible..before leaving to chidambaram we alll took bath in poompukar beach...the place was wonderful and it was marked with lively faces... the sorrows of nagapatinam was lost at poompukar...the next stop was chidambaram...we made archanai to the god and visited the pond inside the temple and made little shopping for the kids...on the way back to home you can get cheap sofas,chairs made by bamboo which is of very good quality...the area is near chidamabram...so friends .....remember one thing..we are alll born to live in this world..we should let others live too...so give up religion and pray to god equally without discrimination...may be our birth marks our religion,but our death should be marked as indian only....be indian by indian.................

trip to delhi-1

2009-04-03T07:04:00.000-07:00

hi friends!!!!!!!!!!this had been the most cherished days of my life which i had with my family.....i went along with my sis and two great buddies to visit delhi......let me list down everything i remember so that the evergreen memories do not fade untill i reach the grave....the first day i was so excited u know why?????????? bcoz i am going to travel alone along with my sis friend to delhi( he is a boy only!!!!!!!no doubts here)... to say the truth this is first time in my life since i dont get along with boys..... dad and mom dropped us at chennai central railway station on friday night 6.45 p.m to catch the most boring train----grand trunk express!!!!! we carried two bags(note the point your honour)and some things to eat with arshed's baggage being the most heaviest(arshed is his name...actually another name is mootai thooki)he didnt allow me to carry and he walked a long distance carrying it since because our coach was S11 the last before the engine...our seat number was 33 and 36(lower berth)......when we reached the s7 coach the train gave a jerk and we thought it has started earlier and we started running to catch it....when we reached the compartment there was no one there..it was preety empty..we thought we are going to be alone and going to enjoy it...all happinesssss ends at a time,,,, so one gang of boys arrived and we thought they will be a torture...fortunately they came to drop two people and the train started at 7.15p.m...dad and mom departed saying to take care of ourselves...i carried two great books of robert ludlum but actually i didnt want to make him bored so i kept it inside and we talked....we had been talking about his girl friend farida for a while and his future carrier and how he could earn through part time jobs and alll...we ate dinner with home made idles and chicken kuruma (moms favourite make....)we threw everything into the dust bin(do keep the environ clean for gods sake atleast try once in a while....)after reaching andhra border a 32 year old man reached our compartment...(stupid man actually) i was made stupid by him and arshed was teasing me for the whole journey...he came and sat next to arshed and kept his legs crossed across my seat ....i felt uncomfortable and i just started to read my book...when he went to toilet i just put off the lights and i slept and arshed was laughing at me for what i did....then that fool had no choice ...he had to sleep....let me say the instance i got fooled by him...next day morning i woke up early since the weather was cold & i was shivering...arshed was so caring and he closed the windows for me at night...we brushed together and we sat opposite to each other....suddenly that 32 started reading hindu(i thought so) while sitting at upper berth...i called arshed and said how did he get today's paper..he laughed at me saying that 32 was having his breakfast chappathi in that paper...he was teasing me for being ignorant of it....and throughout the journey i was made stupid by him and he kept on teasing me.....later we opened our breakfast at 9 o'clock...mom packed us lime rice and curd rice...we both were hungry so we opened it as fast as we could.....unfortunately....u know what happened one rat ate all our lunch and breakfast...the time passed where we could get our breakfast from train...so we had to stay hungry till lunch...we had some noruku theeni and we passed our time as such...another seat was occupied the b4 day night by a 52 year old man and hence the compartment was damn full but they didnt disturb us much....we ordered vegetable biriyani and it was the worse with everything raw..so we had to wait to have a great dinner...unfortunately we were fooled in that case by a khanna khanna man...so that day i was damn hungry and arshed was looking thro the windowas at all stations to buy some fruits for me...but the plan also got failed and we both slept with empty stomach's.....next day morning i had to deliver the food materials given by my friend to her cousin family at delhi...

they helped us to get in auto to gautam nagar where my sister lived for the past to six months to complete her MCI exams...when we reached there she was about to leave for the exam...and ammu picked us at spencers and took us home....a short and untidy home it was...but we had a nice time there and we made it more and more untidy...i have never lived in such a closed quarters but to live with caring ppl was great and blowing....all the three around me were caring and we had nice breakfast,lunch from karnataka bhavan and we all took rest till 4.30...at this time my sister's huge burden got over ....she did her first part well and she said the second one was tough and she was conversing with all her friends reg this...so we started praying for her and we all went to baba's temple and had a nice dharsan...we met pinto my sis friend(arshed was teasing me since pinto showed interest in seeing me)...he was one aunty paithiyam and he was speaking about aunty's and was creating a very great impression....the results were to be announced that day night 2 o'clock.... but i slept at 11.30...my sister and ammu were keeping their fingers crossed and they both didnt sleep...at certain point of time my sister started crying seeing last year results and ammu was consoling her...b4 i woke up arshed and ammu were cheering her...i woke with a start when they were all shouting and my sister passed her exam...nearly 10000 ppl appeared for the exam but only 5% managed to pass...my sister was one among them and we were all damn happy...we shouted and arshed was counting ppl who would appear along with him the next time...and my sis was talking to all her friends till 4 and she started writing the questions for future students reference....next day morning we all slept till 9.30 and we got ready to go out for treat...finally after a great breakfast we started at 12.30 from home and reached lajpat nagar bazzar for shopping.....we were so unlucky bcoz that day was declared banth for some reason...but also we purchased some shorts,chappals for 50 rupees and some tops...we bought a orange and green t-shirt for arshed and a checked t-shirt for ammu.... we even bought a cute flower vase...we bought 2 one for arshed and another for us...we went to bikaner hotel and had a nice lunch with chinese noodles,fried rice and arshed was in a mood out for some reason...after shopping he cheered up a bit...we then went home to take rest and continue by 6 p.m...the idea was ammu's...he said we will take a short nap and then continue shoping(a great planner)on reaching home we slept and my sis went to speak to her prof and she told she will come with tea and wake us up...she came by 7.15 with her friends and they were speaking till 8.30 so our trip got cancelled....we just passed time on seeing tv and discussing about all who failed and passed....next day we all had to get up to visit agra....the great taj was on our minds...but there was no water supply so we alll went without bathing to agra next day morning at 5 a.m...we booked tickets at southern hotels for 750 each....we took an auto to the southern hotel...since bcoz we were running short of water boys completed their nature's call on the hotel free of cost...ammu bought a news paper for 10 rupees(great mind)...and got nice scoldings from my sister....the A/c bus was not packed with people...we had two foreigners and a group of patti's who joined us near India Gate.....and we had two other families....we were talking about arshed's old friends with whom he had a great friendship on the way..then they parked the bus in a hotel for breakfast....its the worse hotel...but you should know the comedy...the ppl who accompanied me will eat anything...so they ate it with pleasure as usual i denied the breakfast...i won't eat much outside especially when iam on a great jolly tour.....we all started to sleep on the midway.....we crossed a place called faridaabad and we were all teasing arshed for it....then we were reaching agra fort

so we woke up with a start....a guide was allocated for us....he was explaining about jahangir's 300 girl friends and grapewine yard....we had a photographer along with us and of course its that mootai thooki.....he was taking pictures in different angles...he was taking pictures in diff poses...we all sat like ranis and rajas on the tombs and took lot of pictures...we were asked to come to the bus again by 10.30...so we made a short purchase...we bought dolls for 40 rupees and a ear ring fro 10 Rs.....we were taken to a shop where stones are designed based on the models of taj mahal paintings....the sculptures were shown for display and a mini tajmahal made in pure marbels was solded for 300 rupees......they said it will shine even in moon light like the real taj....in taj once in a month during full moon special ticket has to be taken to visit it...since bcoz the real taj will shine more wonderful in moon light....the artist who work in the shop belong to the family of ppl who built taj.....we purchased slippers that are of pure leather in the show room below.... then they asked us to complete our lunch in the nearby hotel...there was a pizza hut nearby...so immediately ammu and bhava wanted to take me there...but i thought of having some solid lunch and i didn't want to spoil others appetite so we went to the hotel fearing that it would be same like our breakfast....but it was a great hotel...we ordered some lunch as starter...it was 80 Rupees ...bhava ordered fried rice...then the lunch was great with rasam,poriyal,nan,panneeer masala,nice curries(2 actually),orkai and along with salt and pepper....arshed was in mood out throughout since he wanted to spend but ammu was spending for everything...it's a boy thing....(boys are generally egoistic when it comes to caring and spending,each of them would want to contribute the more)...so we both left it to them and started on our journey to agra to visit the symbol of love......

since because we were not allowed to travel by vehicles that pollute the purlieu around taj our vehicle was parked in the northern gate...from there we have to take a battery run car to taj....on reaching that place arshed bought some white material for 10 Rs that covers ur slippers when u walk in the taj mahal...it prevents the damage that would be caused to the marbels by them....then mom called us enquiring about the lunch we had....we spoke with her and took lot of photos in taj mahal..we saw the lake that covers the back part of taj...we were all comparing it with slumdog millionaire film and were resting on the marbels since we felt intense pain .... arshed was taking lots of photos but we didn't visit the mosque adjacent to it instead we just took pictures....we had to reach our bus on time...so we were running to catch up with it...when we reached the path along taj...we wanted to take a picture with four of us together...we gave the camera to a great photographer (i mean this seriously...he was taking pictures of his wife and was enjoying himself...)when we asked for his help he immediately obliged and took a pic..he told lot of corrections and maded us to stand properly and the pic came out with a great style....thanks to him.....then we returned to bus....arshed and me were in purchase and my sister & ammu were buying tea...we bought a pink color stand and some closures in marbels for 200 Rs....as usual arshed had to rush up with his tea since the bus started...it became his trade mark...he has to always hurry up with his tea...then we were on the way to mathura to visit the birthplace of lord krishna....the rest of the part in trip to delhi-2...byeeeee

psychology an interesting subject

2009-03-03T05:40:00.000-08:00

hi friends!!!!!!!!! psychology is an interesting subject of which i'm not well aware of....but its a subjet that needs attention....according to a great scientist "everyone in this world are psychologically affected"(that scientist is me !!!!!!!!!).. i have to come to the conclusion myself ,but there lies a thin shadow of truth behind it....do not get angry with me if i say everyone are mad here....its true...only degreeeee of madness excludes us from treatment....our behaviour sometimes seems capricious when we are deeply affected by some problems..thats what doctors say as "u r psychologically affected"....mostly we think that people will calll us mad if we consult a psychologist and we live with the stress and sleep over our problems holding heart and brain tight.....try to understand a fact that we are all mad at times,and if u want to come out of it do consult a psychologist... what are dreams????? dreams which may be romantic or someone's death are ur innermost wishes and fear...according to a research they have come to a conclusion that a person who sleeps without dreams are the ones who do not have much stress over them and they are psychologically sound..... suddenly y did i go to dreams??? its to inform u that its a test to find whether u r psychologically fit???what will happen if u get lots and lot of dreams????? (u will not remember anything in the morning) it proves that u have so many things at your brain which troubles u at night too....what should be done????(do not sleep..)before u sleep keep ur mind free of ur worries and thoughts.......
sometimes i wonder about certain things in life!!!!!!!!!if u have come across them do message me...i know the scientific reason behind the questions...but these questions would have occurred to you atleast once in ur life time
why do we think???
why do we have emotions?????
why do we sleep at night????
why there is lot of ppl around us???
why should nature exist when we are destroying it??????
why does it rain??????
is god there????
why money was created???????
why there are lots of terrorist when we want to love each other???
why all bad things happen to me????(we never ask when gud things happen)
why do we appear sad or mood out when there is nothing to worry about????
who created selfishness????
some goood things that we ask is????
who created love??
who created mom and dad???
who created friendship???
who created smile????? well ask this questions to urself and reply me.....
smile is something that differentiates humans from animals....so keep smiling nd i willl continue in the next post....

March-the month of fare well

2009-03-01T09:03:00.000-08:00

hi friends!!!!!! we are going to discuss a topic which is so touching ( i mean to Ur heart....)Most of the time when ppl speak about march we think of exams but unfortunately at its start we have our hearts broken down due to fare well....though the words convey the meaning of parting well our hearts speak about never ending friendship....we write slam books ,we take oaths saying that we will meet often,but nothing happens as we wish....the day comes where we have to part each other and that is on fare well.the best advice i could give my friends is do not believe on the fact that we will meet each other another day.....it may not happen at all...we may lose or succeed in our carrier and we may shine or fade in this world...nothing is known or unknown...so be it the day of farewell...spit your thoughts and disclose everything you could about the person u love,admire and worship in your heart....do not search for another day and you may not find it....you may confirm this from our seniors who have lost in touch with their close friends.....sorry for being negative but truth always have a negative side....

so what is the positive side...ya ya coming to it...take this opportunity and immediately call your best friend and just ask a single question....how are you man???shall we meet....these words will bring the life u have lost in this fast world...grab this while its available plz call Ur friend and speak to them....call now call now call now.....they are waiting for you...they are thinking about you...all they or u need is an urge a slight push...hope i have given it...remember one thing the memories we share with our friends can never be taken back they are still fresh as ever...though we don't find time to spend with them it doesn't mean we have forgot...only a true friend wishes u luck without your knowledge....to all good friends i dedicate this post..........take care all of you....

SHAPE MEMORY ALLOYS

2009-01-15T08:06:00.000-08:00

Hi friends!!!!!! here is an article that is dedicated to development of shape memory effect which had their origin in 1932,when first discovered by Arne Olader.

what is shape memory alloy? An alloy that remebers its original shape and returns back to it after deformation....

how does it happen? so simple....just by applying heat.due to change in temperature an alloy can change its shape(every alloy does that so whts special in this???????)when its cooled it can be molded to the shape we need it....then if warm it,they will return back to their original shape(nice isn't)....it can also be done using the effect of ferro magnetic fields which is highly efficient!!!!

Do you want an example? there is three main combinations ... (1)copper-zinc-aluminum-nickel, (2)copper-aluminium-nickel, and (3)nickel-titanium (commonly known as Nitinol)where it is applied????optometry,prosthodontics,(teeth related),robotics,aircraft,piping etc...

this post is just an introduction....to be continued later!!!!

happy new year 2009

2009-01-07T21:04:00.000-08:00

hi friends!!!!!!!! sorry for belated wishes...but with all my heart i wish you all a happy new year 2009!!!!i pray god that this year would be free of terrorism and full of love to make this earth fruitful to live.....have a great year ahead filled with happiness and success in every step u take forward!!!!!!!!

The Best Face

2008-12-18T08:18:00.000-08:00

hi friends!!!!!!!on seeing the title donot guess the topic we are going to discuss....The Best Face so what does it mean?well of course if u are thinking about yourself it doesn't matter because its a well known fact that humans make mistakes.we can correct it as soon as the matter proceeds...during exams what do you do?(definitely we dont read)so wht else we do on the morning we have exam.....ask this question several times?????? i hope u dont get the answer....have you ever noticed this????? i understand that iam beating around the bush...but what is behind the bush will always make u push ahead in life......

i have checked this several times in my life...some of u would have realized it and some of you are now in the process of learning....so what is the lesson...every time i leave for exam,when my mom is in good mood she says do well,see and write the paper...if she assures me with her love,u wont believe i have made progress where i never even dreamed of....i get easy papers or questions that iam well aware of.one bad day,i had a fight with my mom,and she didn't even join me to the gate,when i left for college to write exam. i just assured myself that nothing wrong would happen...unfortunately,the paper was tough that day,not for all but for me...moms love is vast than the ocean...let it be her love or scoldings,believe in one fact "Its All For You".

i have not said this to my mom...i have not told her that the best face i have come across in my life is "My Mom alone"....

to sweet and sour mom's

True heart speaks about charity

2008-11-26T01:23:00.000-08:00

hi friends...this post is a critical questionnaire which is a way to test Ur mindset about charity...so how to do it? answer this following questions one by one? don't scroll down and read the last one,bcoz u may not be able to follow your own line of thoughts....ask this question thrice or twice (it can be more than this also).be genuine in the answer u give to each question...don't pretend to be smart bcoz that is the place where u seem to lose yourself.this is not philosophy Am speaking about but its the truth.so lets go the questions!!!!!!!

(1) if u have ten rupees in your hand will u donate just one rupee to a poor fellow?

if the answer is yes please scroll down further

(2) if u have hundred rupees in your hand will you donate just ten rupees to a poor fellow?

if yes go down further

patience plz plz

(3) if you have thousand rupees will u donate hundred to a poor man?

if yes go down further

patience patience.....

(4)if u have one lakh will u donate ten thousand to a poor man?

if yes go down further(dont just get angry for answering bcoz i would like to know further...plz have some patience)

(5)if u have ten lakhs will u donate one lakh to a poor man?

if yes go down further

its going to get over wait a bit....

(6)if you have one crore will u donate just ten lakhs to a poor fellow?

i don't want to go further (no no...its not about income tax problem,its bcoz we cant have more than that amount during these days of financial crisis)....

so after answering these questions just message with a single numeral saying at what place u stopped answering YES....mine was so simple....i thought about this when i was driving...to say the truth i stopped at second position itself,then i reconsidered b4 taking a final decision...after that decision i opted for 4th position....truly speaking money plays the game in the field of love...we are merry wickets to them.....

regulex-special machine 3

2008-11-25T05:28:00.000-08:00

hi friends this is another special machine that suppies power to my blog. its also termed as allis chalmers...the regulex is a rotating power amplifier that also operates on the straight line of the characteristic curve.however instead of series field as in the case of rototrol ii implies shunt field to provide self exciting ampereturns.(watch my before post for details) resistor 'r' is selected to make the resistance fall in the straight line portion of the generator characteristic curve.this technique is similar to adjusting the field rheostat of a conventional shunt generator to the critical field resistance value.similar to rototrol,thr regulex also has two auxillary fields.one is a refernce field connected to the constant potential source,and the other is a control field.....in fig C represents the control field and R represents reference field......References:
(1)direct and alternating current machinery by JACK ROSENBLATT,P.E and M.HAROLD FRIEDMAN,P.E by Tata MC graw hill editions....

Rototrol-special machine 2

2008-11-22T08:50:00.000-08:00

hi friends this is an another addition to my rare collection of special machines theories...its called WESTING HOUSE..... we will see in detail the operation of rototrol.its a rotary amplifier whose principle of operation may be compared with the series generator.in a series generator,there is only series field and no shunt field.at no load due to residual magnetism the terminal voltage is very minimum.as the load increases the generated voltage increases because of the load current in series field.due to increase in series field current,its field flux increases,thus increasing the voltage.the magnitude of voltage generated will depend upon the load resistance.in order to increase or decrease the terminal voltage without changing the value of load resistance can be achieved by increasing or decreasing the flux by addition of extra windings and providing excitation to them.a small change in the input power to the additional windings causes a corresponding change in field flux which produces a large change in the output power thereby achieving power gain. the series field with auxiliary windings describe the rototrol as in fig 1

A-self energizing field B-load C-tuning resistor D-pattern field that supplies to reference voltage E-pilot field that supplies to control voltagehere the armature is in series with the series field also called as self energizing field,the load,and the tuning resistor.the tuning resistor is adjusted to make the resistance constant by the action of self energizing field. the two additional fields are pattern fields and pilot fields.the pattern field is usually connected to a fixed potential source,while the pilot field is connected to a source of potential that is to be connected.when the controlled voltage is at the desired value the flux produced by the pilot field will be equal and opposite to the flux produced by the pattern field.an increase in the controlled voltage causes the net flux to flow in a direction opposite to the self energizing field flux,thus reducing o/p from rototrol.this situation exist until former value of control voltage is established......rototrol control of the output voltage of the generator is indicated in fig 2.... the tuning resistor is adjusted until Vt is the value desired.

P1-pattern field P2-pilot field R-rototrol G-generator L-load

under this conditions ampere turns of pattern field is balanced by the ampere turns of pilot field.if Vt rise then pilot field flux will exceed the pattern field flux..this flux will oppose the self energizing field hence reducing the voltage applied to the field of the generator.a lower volt across the field will reduce the terminal voltage.

application:

rototrol can be employed to control current speed or any action that can be translated into an equivalent electrical voltage....

References:

(1)direct and alternating current machinery by JACK ROSENBLATT,P.E and M.HAROLD FRIEDMAN,P.E by Tata MC graw hill editions....

Amplidyne-special machine

2008-11-21T16:45:00.000-08:00

[fig 1 shows block diagram of amplidyne operation]

Hi friends!!!!!!this is a very old technology that was used in first world war and we are about to discuss it….this is an extract from a book of special machines which was written in the year 1963…its an post that would awaken you to the most simplest,reliable operation of special machines of that age…..today we are going to see about AMPLIDYNE(GENERAL ELECTRIC)…. so whats special about amplidyne????it has a power gain of 10000:1 i.e if you apply 1 watt input to the feild u can get 10000 watt output power....The primary use of an amplidyne is in the positioning of heavy loads through the use of synchro/servo systems. for example, its used to drive very heavy object like antenna with less intensity feild.let us see in detail.........

An amplidyne is a special dc generator,That supply large dc currents, precisely controlled, to the large dc motors used to drive heavy physical loads, such as gun turrets and missile launchers. .the dc generator consists of many conductors rotating in a magnetic field.the magnetic field is produced by the field coils,and the voltage induced in the rotating conductors is available at the brushes.the brushes are located at right angles to the field flux or on the magnetic neutral.

[Fig 2 shows separetly excited generator at no load(hand work so kindly ignore mistakes) ]

No current is shown in the armature conductors because the load switch is open.the only magnetic field in the machine is produced by the field coils and the direction of the field is from west to east...........when the load switch is closed,current will flow through the armature conductors.the current in the conductors under the north pole will be away from the person who is reading this,while the current in the conductors under the south pole will be towards the person.the armature current sets up a magnetic field held at right angles to the main field flux i.e from north to south as in fig 3….. [fig 3 shows the armature and main feild flux]

If the output of the generator is short circuited then armature current will be large and the generator will be damaged. in order to retain the short circuit and yet prevent the generator fromm being damaged,the input to the field is reduced until the armature is carrying rated current....under this conditions,the flux due to the shunt feild is reduced approx 1/100 of its former value while the rated armature current produces a value of flux approx the oriinal value of shunt field flux.thus a small input to the shunt field control the large flux produced by the armature.

Two voltages are induced in the armature as it rotates.one voltage as the result of the conductors cutting the small main field.its available at the brushes located at right angles to the main field flux......the second voltage is induced in the conductors due to the cutting of main armature flux and this is available at the brushes located at right angles to the armature flux.this is well explained through fig 4 ........

[fig 4 shows amplidyne schematic diagram]

Since armature flux approz field flux the output voltage is not ,low in an amplidyne.thus a large o/p is controlled by small i/p. as stated earlier its power gain is 10000:1(its an oversimplification its stated to prove the strength of amplidyne).if u double the excitation current to increase the i/p to 4 watts it leads to the following.... main feild flux doubles---induced voltage doubles----armature flux doubles---output voltage doubles.......the o/p would be 40,000 wats...with just an power amplification of 3 watts 30,000 watts can be obtained.compensation windings are included in amplidyne to reduce main field flux... a schematic diagram showing amplidyne operation is given in fig 1.....i hope i have made my points clear....if there is a doubt write to my blog comments...i will help in clearing them.......
REFERENCES:
(1)direct and alternating current machinery by JACK ROSENBLATT,P.E and M.HAROLD FRIEDMAN,P.E by tata mc graw hill editions

Pulsar driving your pulse-part 3

2008-11-14T07:57:00.000-08:00

hi friends...recognition of women in this world is quite complex and not understandable,because its made as such by most men.the dominant sex as they call them have failed to notice the importance of women....what a man thinks in a second can be carried out by women in micro second...that always the power of women which is underestimated...few men do not accept failure to a women because they consider it sleazy....on the other side,we accept failures and grow before them like a mountain in whose shadows they all lie in groups!!!!!!!so what is this has to do with pulsar(i know the question u are trying to shoot out?)as i said in my first post,i sometimes chase pulsars to be ahead them...i chased the pulsar and not the person on it(it was a fight between pulsar and scooty pep)but it can be very easily mis understood......so on that day after i won the race,when i was standing in the signal after a cool victory(wait iam coming there only)i told u all that he is said three words...they are so simple yet dynamic which is not heard from most men....what is it?he turned towards me and said with a smile on his face"thts nice drive"........i have chased pulsars before but those people will just reach ahead me and turn to smile with a glint in their face that says"you cannot win"....every day after that i used to try and reach my destination ahead of most people.....i was surprised when i heard it from a guy who knows to appreciate a womens victory over his failure.....i just hope most adam's are like this to most eve's of this world.......to the victory of womanhood!!!!!!!!!

pulsar -driving your pulse part-2

2008-11-11T22:16:00.000-08:00

hi friends!!!!!!!!!!!!! to be continued.............. this is how the post ended ,some days before...so iam starting from the place i left....we were standing in the signal next to each other with our bikes resting for a while(u need to switch off (electrical language)your bikes,while waiting in the signal to avoid pollution!!!!!!try some day its interesting)after two seconds, he removed his helmet and stared at me fora second!!!! i knew he is watching but i didn't turn to see him...one more second passed (count the seconds it will give the signal timings to u)without my conscience i just turned to face him.....have you ever seen a 60 watts bulb glowing like a 80 watts bulb?????if u have then his reaction would have not been a surprise to you...unlike others,i didnt have opportunities to watch so many bulbs,so it was surprising to me.....i think the glow in his face existed throughout the conversation(wht did we converse?i know you are asking this question to ur self...wait for a while......)a second passed with his smile circularizing the area. i think i got struck as if some one has put a pause button to my life....two seconds passed....(wht usually girls do in signal when is some guy watching u??????u will pretend like u are not seeing the guy...check ur watch for time...check ur mobile for messages,if there is none u will send messages!!!!!!!if the guy is super gud u will make calls to show ur sweet voice.....)but unfortunately,i didn't do any of this!!!(u are asking why unfortunate right?????? i would not be in this position if that day,that hour,that minute,that second, i had turned my face to his opposite direction)...five seconds passed.....i came back to my sense and before i could turn(i think he guessed that iam going to turn...)he uttered three words that struck me in the heart like a lightning bolt......so what is the three words????????????? to be continued.......

video games - boon or boondoggle

2008-11-03T08:07:00.000-08:00

hi friends!!!!!! here is a nice topic for adults and children who are mostly acquainted with video games.we always have immense interest over video games since because it has become part of life for most of us......there are two type of arguments that is exposed to the society regarding video games and their effects on human behaviour(especially Ur brain).first let us be positive...how can video games be positive?(if that's your question just read ahead, the answer lies in the question itself!!!!!!!!!)).for example,imagine you are playing a video game where you are a millionaire...u will talk,think and act trying to inhibit the role of the millionaire..it develops a positive inspiration in you and Ur character..... as a whole,video games increases your concentration level and memory power....this is a proven fact. so what is so negative about video games...people often complain that it initiates aggressive behaviour in children which is also proved scientifically.....according to the research,it decreases the beta activity of the brain.beta waves indicate the liveliness and degree of tension in the pre-frontal region of the brain...as a result its closely related to the aggressive behaviour created due to excess tension.they have confirmed that this effect may become long lasting creating behavioural changes in children...so what is the solution to this serious problem which is behind the screen but before the computer...what can be done to it? people must realize that old ways are better ways...children should be taught to play games like volley ball,basket ball,throw ball,cricket and what not? it will help them in building good social relationships and will make them a effective team player....they will get acquainted with hardships rather than developing aggressive behaviour....concentration will increase tremendously without their acknowledgement....its so simple,very well known,widely accepted but not in practice......

pulsar-driving your pulse

2008-10-31T10:13:00.000-07:00

hi friends!!!!!!!it was a moody day for me today.so i started to make it more interesting by driving a long distance...i just thought of going to Connemara library at Egmore...it was a pleasant day with nothing to occupy the clouds.it was not too sunny yet it was warm...i started from my home at 2 o'clock in my scooty pep+(black-my favourite).i do no what happened to me,but i was feeling great when i drove to Egmore. i had a pleasant smile like a topping in ice cream.i didn't get angry over people who disobeyed rules.it was a special occasion today.....i left library by 5 after some preparations. when i came back home the same notion caught over me again..i was happy but i didn't know y?i was not able to judge the reason for it.....then a pulsar passed by the right side of me...i have a strange craze for pulsar...(right from the day one i saw it )i do no what caught my attention over pulsar...it would have been its features:i have listed very Little about it......
technically,DTS-I- digital twin spark ignition for faster and better combustion,it also employs 8-bit microprocessor that controls the spark delivery.
personally,what caught my attention right from the beginning was the LCD speedo and tachometer console in the front end and the led tail lamp at the rear end...the way in which a pulsar drives the mind of people is different from other bikes...so coming back to wht happened ? whenever i see pulsar i will try to chase it for a while until my scooty pep begs for breath...today the pulsar which i saw was black in colour....a man wearing helmet was driving it and he was ahead me in the signal. i wanted to be ahead of pulsar for a while so i just raised the accelerator and crossed the signal first(after green only)......i think the pulsar guy got angry and he tried to chase and win over this unspoken battle.....but i made sure that he is behind me by beating him twice in the race....near WCC college there is a wide curve which i always love to turn by taking long distance...i did the same today and got struck by the fate...he overtook me at this point by taking short distance to cover the curve...he just turned back to look in order to make his victory prominent....i thought he will go after that so i just went in my usual speed....but in the next signal i saw him again so i decided to invoke the battle again,i chased him and won over the game very easily since he didn't expect me to corner him again....he tried in vain to catch over at valluvar kottam but i just passed through the vehicles like a slithering snake and reached the signal first...so our expedition continued even at kodambakkam bridge with pulsar behind scooty pep....i was just happy for the speed my bike gave today.near sekar emporium signal we were once again standing next to each other on the signal....i just kept my face impassive of thoughts and emotions so that he would not find anything from it...but he did a thing which was unexpected.....what is it?????????
to be continued...................................

agriculture-backbone broken to acheive economy

2008-10-30T06:49:00.000-07:00

hi friends!!!everyone is aware of the importance of agriculture(u have to bcoz u eat three times a day)but no one pays attention towards its decline in the recent years...we are very much concerned about the decrease in share rates at stock exchange,but we are not aware of the mileu around us....we are transferring agricultural lands to IT projects.forexample, SPECIAL ECONOMIC ZONE OF MANGLORE....nearly 1800 acres have been given for this project.of which most of the lands acquired are cultivable.....the farmers being illterate are unaware of the consequences that they will face in the future...as a result the lands are demolished for construction...similar things happened in singhur.people forget one thing that they cannot eat papers in the future..they have to understand the value of agriculture before there is nothing left to ponder over...in the future due to this activities even humans may be marked as endangered species....its better we rise before its too late....

crackers -handle with care!!!!!!

2008-10-27T03:16:00.000-07:00

hi friends!!!!diwali a unique day that serves a unique purpose!!!!! since we are well aware of it we will skip the intro....hope u are alll having lots of bags filled with crackers to be fired on diwali and 2 to 3 more days to come.....fill ur heart with joy and happiness and enjoy this diwali..... according to the tradition crackers drive the evil spirit away!!!!!make sure that u are not drived to hospital while driving away evil spirit...hence handle crackers with care....nearly 14 lives have been sparred in making of fireworks during these past seven months.....it would be better to keep the count down by ensuring safety....when a small burn occurs immediately immerse it in cold water or use cloth soked in cold water to prevent swelling or further damage of epidermis....immediately rush to nearby hospital and treat the patient as soon as u can....never use butter,oils, soap,lotions of ur interest...remember we are creating pollution by burning crackers...minimize the crackers u use every year to protect the environment!!!!!! enjoy well.....celebrate so that the sky will hear u....take care of ur health and ur crackers too.......

question for diwali!!!!!!!!!

2008-10-27T02:57:00.000-07:00

hi friends !!!! hope you are all celebrating the day marked by victory of good over evil....its a day that commemorates the victory of truth and triumph of lord rama and his return to his home land after 14 years....another story says that it was victory of lord vishnu over bali (an evil force) for now its a day where people meet each other and acknowledge their relationships better in this fast moving IT world...years have passed and days have changed leaving us with only customs and devoid of actual meaning of celebrations.....now the celebrations happen among only 4 or 3 ppl in a nuclear family...in those days a whole village celebrated diwali together to emphasize the importance of their victory of gud over evil....but now we are in search of the family we lost in this small world....we use this day only to identify our family and speak two or three words that would show courtesy and start again our expedition to find the next member...if we are exhausted enough our jaunt comes to an end!!!!!!!! so this how do u think diwali should be? answer should be NO for a normal being....so how it should be??????i have my own idea...if u all contribute yours, i will tell mine...we will see if it matches!!!!!!

"Last bench looties"

2008-10-22T08:41:00.000-07:00

hi friends!!!!!!!!! are u a student from last bench?its time to make others envy about it....being a last bench student i know the responsibilities we face in shaping a class to a better level!!!! we are the makers of history...one day our name will be remembered and cherished for the same...we have donated our time for the welfare of human well being especially during a boring lecture.... what we do is unclear for most of the bright blues in the front.they ignore us which is a fatal mistake they realize only in their death bed...fine!!!fine!!!! leave them beside(they are mostly black crows flying behind professors)so what did we do that made us stars in the sky!!!!!!!!!we will ponder over our thoughts for a while!!!!!!!!!
(1) we don't mind at what hour the lecture starts but we are worried abt the break and the lunch hour....
(2)if we feel suddenly hungry then not even a single being can stand against and prevent us from emptying our friends tiffin box.....
(3)though the class is going on the aroma of our moms lunch is spread throughout to make others mouth water!!!!!!!
(4)playing games when professors asks to write test...giving a empty paper in return
(5) coming to college alternatively to enjoy free periods
(6)if u are forced to listen then pretending as if all sorts of diseases have overthrown themselves over u without any consult....
(7)sudden vomitting,stomach pain,headache during exam...sometimes typhoid,malaria for important exams...
(8)keeping names for all teachers like soriyan,short put,azhuku mootai,jukki and ur fellow boys and girls like soombu nakki,trouser panndi!!!!!!
(9) forming pairs within class to tease them at our will and framing family songs for them!!!!
(10)sleeping which is the most wonderful thing we learnt in schools and colleges....the fascinating thing is keeping ur eyes open when u sleep...that takes a lot of training and it can done only by last bench students(the copy writes lies with us)
(11)creating a commotion in college bus to make others realize that there are still ghosts in existence...
(12)using the valuable time of ours to shout mam...mammm..mammmm.....mammmmm.........mammmmmmmmm so that they will not take classs...see we are doing too much gud for the welfare of others.
(13)a slow whistle that would leave the profeesor confused for a while....
(14)asking questions back during viva just to confuse the external.....
(15)always thinking of a better play to execute where others will be jokers and u directing the movie..
(16)how to get O.D instead of leave has to be learned from us...
(17)enjoying the life as much as u can with your friends so that u need not regret the day u spent!!!!
"LIVE FOR TODAY,
PLAN FOR TOMORROW,
PARTY TONIGHT"

ROAD TO OOTY

2008-10-21T10:56:00.000-07:00

ooty in short uthagamandalam(just kidding!) is a nice place to visit in summer....dont try to visit in winter as i did...yet it offered its service with all mightiness as it could....we reached ooty through coimbatore(a hot place and an outlet for business)on early morning 8 o'clock we reached ooty but it was like morning five....we stayed near motti manor...
the motel was a gud one with better accomodation!!!!!we where actually 12 girls (gud gang) who went to tour.it was a 2 storey compartment with four beds.six people stayed down and six took their watch over upstairs.we all had our breakfast in the restaurant and we started of to visit our first place in ooty!!!!
TEA FACTORY:
our first visit at ooty was tea factory which emptied my savings as fast it could. a old guide explained us regarding tea preparation and a live show was evinced!then they gave a sample tea to make us buy tea powder.i easily fell prey(i dont consume any milk products but u see my sis is crazy on tea)i bought 500gms of caradamom tea and 4 different flavour of tea dust..then i bought home made choclates which are really tasty(it cost nearly 150 but worth the money)!!!!! finally after purchase we took some snaps and we left to our next post tamilnadu's highest peak doddabetta....on the way to doddabetta the land was lined with variety of crops like carrot,cauliglower,cabbage,raddishes and some many different kinds of farming methods...DODDABETTA:
The next centre of attraction in ooty is doddabetta.we reached the peak point through jeep.then we ate ice cream to equal the chillness outside.actually its a zone where environment is widely protected.they do not use plastics and its a place where people are matured enough not to throw papers on the road.after admiring its vast beauty we went to have lunch then after it came the surprise visit!!!!!!!!!we took pictures by sleeping over the rocks like stars and made everyone look at us.i hope everyone thought we are from asylum...

BOATING:well it was surprise to me, on seeing the lake so pure and intent.the enigma captured us rather than its cynical smile.actually we had a long debate whether we should go for boating.some of them were afraid they may lose their life..others were worried abt money(i was one among them).then finally we hired a motor boat for 300 rupees for ten ppl leaving two behind.then money problem got solved bcoz i borrowed money from my friend raji...we sang songa during the trip.we paid another 50 as commission and took another trip.whoever was present there thought we are some bull dogs shouting like maniac...well they didnt our true identity(watch ur steps!!!!!!)

CAMPFIRE:

dont get exited as we did.actually we practised a song to be played during bonfire and we were ready with the steps.then came some unwanted problem which ended in fight.finally bonfire was cancelled(never mind we had another backup plan for that day night)the secret got unveiled only after dusk!!!!!! yes! the celebration of our hod's 70th birthday(an old man with sweet tongue) so finally after a quick dinner we started the celebration!!!!!!!!!!
HOD'S BIRTHDAY: To say abt our hod he always understands students better than anyone else.he knows his duties and stays calm and handle things better by bringing a balance.we celebrated his b'day by cutting cake and with a miniature cracker.he was surprised and thanked us.finally he gave a speech which bought tears to everyone heart.he blessed us and asked someone to speak.he is considered higher than doddabetta to us..... that day night was history to those twelve girls who were present in the motel alone.we did wht everyone will think twice before doing.we awoke everyone within the vicinity.so many complaints ran to the reception.we enjoyed the calls from the reception and said a sorry which was meaningless in the next minute..it took 12o clock to sleep for the twelve of us...with so many exhaustion we slept pushing each other in the bed...

BACK TO CHENNAI:

Early morning ooty is a place to fall in love.the sun at dawn looks like as if it had been charmed with mist and fog..it was a cherubic sight that i could not take my eyes off it... i got up at 5 but i tried to have a quick nap before everyone gets up to get ready..i slept over the sofa,since the bed was preoccupied...the chillness ran down my spine as if iam crushed by the beauty of ooty..every flower there was in different variety yet they spoke the authentic language of affection and love...always to be loved shows a difference in life,especially when it comes to nature.....love ur environment!!!!!!!!!!!

we started from ooty by morning 9.30.we got late because my dear friend got hurt by falling down the slope.she had pain in spinal cord hence we all became restless.after some time we packed our things and we reached coimbatore to catch the train to chennai..we played cards and rapids with treachery &trick...we all hated to return to chennai....that was not an iv it was a tour and a final one.days may come and pass by, but we will never forget these days we had together....3 days of tour has strengthened our frienship and love for each other and it has built a citadel in our hearts where no man can enter....its a no man island...only meant for our twelve girls!!!!!!!!!!!!!frienship is a golden thread that ties the heart of all of us....

Tic...Tic...Tic

2008-10-17T04:37:00.000-07:00

"don't count every hour in the day,make every hour in the day count" is an adage that enumerates us about the valubility of time...have you ever stopped to think of the breath that u take in everyday,every minute and every second!!!!!!!!have u realised that u r breathing without your knowledge of doing it at this moment????are u that busy??? want to know how to manage time?well here is some simple tips:
(1)frame up To-Do list for everyday with priorities set
(2)if u avoid bad habits then half ur time is preserved
(3)based on ur energy level adjust the works u have got to do
(4)while u plan a work always have a back-up plan(it would be really fruitful)
(5)enjoy the work u do,it will be completed soon
now all this will work out only for ppl who is going to try it!!!!!!!if u are not in a mood to try out all these better dont waste time,take a pillow reach ur bed as soon as possible!!!!! atleast dream that one day you will accomplish these things!!!!!

is inflation making u inferior????????????

2008-10-17T03:22:00.000-07:00

hi friends!!!!!!!!!inflation-ten years back you would not even have heard about this word!!!!!!!!but its now heard everywhere around you(thanx to media)!!!!!!economically speaking its hike in prices...truly speaking if u have money to buy rice u will not have money to buy vegetables to make sambar!!!!!well it existed in different forms in different aspects right from 1990's!!!!!!!the reason during that time was mainly due to the fact that supply was unable to meet the demand,so there was hike in prices....but now inflation has taken a new avatar(i.e.)global imbalance!!!!!we export our products to US and other countries and the money is put in foreign reserves which are evaluated in dollars,when there is fall in dollar value automatically there is fall in our values.....so we are getting more affected than U.S people if there is fall in their economy.... inflation is like a stain in shirt that would never leave without spoiling the shirt(don't use Ariel,Rin,Surf!!!!!!!!! our central government is trying that only)well there are lot of reasons that are stated for inflation but the solutions are limited....banks are getting bankrupted and finally we are losing our savings on inflation!!!!!!
recently i read a sms:
suddenly the cheque you gave to ur friend gets bounced on the reason "INSUFFICIENT FUNDS" but u are not able to judge whether there is no money in ur account or in the bank!!!!!!
let us awake before it gets that long!!!!!!!!!

swami vivekananda says??????

2008-10-17T02:49:00.000-07:00

hi friends!!!!!!!!here is a treat from vivekananda column!!!!!!!!fighting for the skin of the fruit and not for fruit itself!!!!!!!!does it ring anything in your mind??well you will be able to understand from the story that follows:
one day swami was teaching his disciples regarding three things that make our food impure:
(1)jati-dosha:natural defects of certain class of food like onions,garlic, etc.;
(2)nimitta-dosha:defects arising from the presence of impurities like dust particles,dead insects,etc.;
(3)ashraya-dosha:defects that arises by the food that comes from evil sources or wicked persons...
but in this country we don't pay attention to the first two doshas!!!!!!! our main aim lies in concentrating on the third one!!!only a true yogi will be able to discriminate between a good person and a wicked one...the people of this country are getting bored by the cries"don't touch of the non-touchism party"!!!!!!!!according to these few people there is no discrimination between gud and bad man as long as he wears a thread around his head and calls himself a brahmana!!!!!!!!so we put aside all the sublime truths that has been stated in the religion and fight "for the skin of the fruit and not for the fruit itself"!!!!!!!!!!!
the moral of the story is that you can receive food from anyone and eat without showing any discrimination!!!!!!!!

come back!!!!!

2008-10-17T02:42:00.000-07:00

hi friends!!!!!!!!after a long time iam posting!!!!!!!!according to me its a come back to the internet world.....well i have been preparing for my gre and toefl exams and i lost in touch with computers for a while......preparations went well rather than the results...after all i didn't correct the paper..some computer with lots of virus evaluated and gave a mark which is a garbage in computer language....so finally my works have got over and i think i will be regular in posting!!!!!

review on stephen white series

2008-09-11T11:15:00.000-07:00

hi friends!!!!!!!here is a post to interest people who thrive for thrillers!!!!!!if thrillers are not ur cup of tea kindly go through my other posts.....well to speak about stephen white he is professionally a psychologist and personally a good looking smart man who has got enough background and knowledge to write a first class thriller.....they are kind of books where the speed is low unlike davinci where u feel like u have been handed over to a butcher who knows science and technology.of course some blood will be spilled over here and there only if the need arises.....stephen's books are slow in unveiling the evidence that supports the murders yet they keep u enthralled and makes u await and it awakens you by the surprise that shows up at your feet when you where not expecting it!!!!!!i read nearly 4 or 5 of his books(hope u all read more than that).....they are all damn good!!!!!!all u need to read the book is some patience at the start!!!!!!!the main characters in the novel are alan an psychologist,his wife lauren an attorney,emily their dog(dont think its something like famous five,the dog is just a show piece),sam purdy their friend who is a police official.........they are not working as a team disentangling crimes(their professions would seem like that to u)!!!!!!!they just face the crimes that comes by their way....these are not crimes that makes you imagine of supernatural powers,these are kind of crimes that we hear everyday but not involved in it....some of his books i read where (1) remote control(2) cold case(3)the best revenge(4)the program and another one!!!!!!! its not just a novel it teaches a good virtue i.e. never betray the promise you made to your profession,abide by its code of conduct no matter whatever happens!!!!!!!hope you all will get it when u read the book....

catch hold of electricity

2008-08-30T11:42:00.000-07:00

hi friends!!!!always a brief pause crosses our life and i think it has happened in my life too....just a short one but i have missed the most important thing in blogging....i think instead of being steady in progress i became transient and i didn't find time to post out my views!!!!!!!the most hot topic that goes now hot and sweaty in tamilnadu is electricity problem which has lead to oil crisis.......the problems we face cannot be elucidated in a single post!!!!but some of them can be enumerated as samples:

(1) one hour power cut everyday which has lead to so many problems for domiciles whereas in industries they use generators...so the most affected people are home makers(they are ur mom,sis,wife.........)

(2)due to power cuts diesel has not been pumped from reservoirs at harbours....if u think its not important as petrol that u need everyday then you are wrong!!!!!!diesel is more important than petrol...they play a preeminent position in deciding rates for all your household materials(right from vegetables to whatever you cannot imagine) lorries runs on diesel,if vegetables from different parts of India did not reach Tamilnadu then we will not be able to live here(since we have shifted from your agriculture industry to IT field).everything reach us through transport via lorries..so only we face sudden rise in vegetables,fruits and all other commodities that we need everyday.....
(3)now there is one more good news that the time limit is going to be extended from 60 to 90 minutes...
i have list down some points which are the effects of lack in generation of electricity.so what can be done is the most important rather than what has been done...
(1) alternate sources of energy is the best way!!!!!!i'm not asking you to build solar panel at home,but u can put your garbage at the right place which will generate the electricity u need!!!!!!!!are u confuse......here is the solution -bio gas.
just collect garbage's at your home and put them in a tin and wait for 10 days.by the process of anaerobic respiration the methane gas will get converted as carbon dioxide which can be converted into heat and then into electrical energy.....the gas developed can be directly used as gas for house hold purposes.the heat energy that exits out can be used for providing hot water.this is a completely innocuous method which will provide electricity at cheaper rate!!!!!!!!
(2) what else can be done? yes u can do one more thing!!!!!!!don't throw rapers at roads,schools,colleges etc... anywhere,anytime u will find a dust bin nearby put them into it...if u don't find any definitely u will have a bag with u use it.if u don't have that also use empty pockets!!!!!!!once you start to practice this u will kind of get addicted to it...you will feel like u are doing something great to the worlds welfare!!!!!!
this is a good time to start!!!!!!!hence start at once............
"GO GREEEEEEEEEEEN"

" The independence day"

2008-08-14T11:30:00.000-07:00

hi friends iam writing this at the minute we got our independence 61 years ago....well this independence have provided us with agricultural development,improvement in technology,and of course improvement in terrorism!!!!!!!! we cannot count our victories because they are yet to be achieved in large scale...we can count our failures because they are going to be closed soon.....we may have problems with terrorist,politicians,bribe,population growth,caste and creed,but remember one thing for sure,we are INDIANS "THE PROUD INDIANS"....we always help others,we are innocent sometimes towards foreign policies,we apologise for our undone mistakes,we condemn people who are doing injustice to our fellows worldwide,but nothing we can't do..every mile stone is achievable for Indians,everything is possible only for Indians because we don't measure the possibilities we take liberties in full filling our dreams,which will ensure that it serves the best of all people....i have never felt ashamed to say am INDIAN...it gives me immense pleasure when i think of India the country of varied regions and diversity...my India once filled only with love is just slightly poisoned by illicit activities which will get away as they came when my country becomes developed nation......hope u are all proud to be an Indian.....my INDIA the best country in the world,i just wish am born thousand times in this same land......

A parable enunciating human nature

2008-08-12T02:46:00.000-07:00

hi friends!!!!!!here is a treat to your perpetuating soul and mind....this is a very short parable which explains about human nature through a viper and a sage....once upon a time(yeh!!!!!always the story should start like this only!!!!!!) there lived a sage in the interior of the forest doing his usual work(are u wondering what work he does!!!!! it is praying to God as usual).to describe about his character,he is beneficent,amiable,amicable and all sorts of good words u can find in English!!!!!!!!!!! and of course he is intelligent yar....oh god i forgot to give a preamble about the snake THE VIPER....its the most venomous snake u would have heard of...well according to the story it gets it prey by killing the people of nearby village(bad isn't)...so one fine day when this rural people could not endure the snake anymore they went and complained to the sage(bcoz he was the wise person available at that time!!!!!!!).he immediately responded to them and called the snake to his place...the snake arrived like rajini at the right time to the right place!!!! then the sage ordered the snake that he/she (i mean the snake) should not bite anyone...but the snake did not fret over the judgement instead went to its living place and stayed calm (as if it has drunk some two bottles of anodyne!!!!!!!)...

a small boy saw the snake and at first he threw a small stone which was minuscule in size!!!!!!the snake kept up its promise and didn't bite..similarly so many small boys and so many stones came by the way of snake...everyone was trying to hit the snake for its past deeds....then small boys got converted to overgrown man and women and small stones got converted to big ones!!!!the result was the snake was left with cuts and bruises!!!!!!!!!
one day the sage came on a walk to look around the forest and found the snake crying...he saw the bruises and understood the cruel nature of humans behind it!!!!!!! he advised the snake saying that"i told u not to kill them but u can hiss ,pretend like u r trying to kill,and see the way they run"...the snake followed it and saved its own life.....
i know u are waiting for the moral here it is!!!!!always ur wrong doings will help u to learn lessons that are unnecessary!!!!!!so don't do anything wrong!!!!!!!live like a good boy/girl.....

terrorism -lack of love

2008-07-25T08:21:00.000-07:00

hi everyone!!!!! this is a post to bring caution rather than comments....i hope you all have heard of terrorists attack at Bangalore..well iam not going to give you facts or photos or details on how the incident happened...iam not going to enumerate the reasons for the blast or the main target of the blast...this post is all about caution....(not the way u all think about caution as) i mean caution not to protect yourselves against terrorism...its a caution not to eradicate love for our fellows.... terrorism developed bcoz certain ppl started to love money,policies,religion and after alll they forgot about their family,friends and their neighbours....they forgot the beautiful facets of their life...i think these people have never seen a child's face filled with amusement,questions that can never be answered,love,affection,kindness and so much which can never be explored.....i just wish one thing.....if all the terrorists drop their guns one day then this earth would be the most beautiful of all the universe.....they say life is possible only at earth and not in any other planet...if that's the fact then we are all trying to make life impossible at earth..........we may achieve our goal one day at the top of blood shed by our fellows...want to stop alll this non sense...just do one thing!!!! stop loving your friends and family alone....love everyone around u,ur society,ur environment and everything u can see and feel!!!!!dont forget the fact that terrorist do not come from some other planet,they live among you....they would have been ur friends some time before but now would have changed at the hands of evilllll and u may be a reason to it!!!!!!!!! so keep loving people until ur life ends!!!!!!!!!

marsupials and their birth

2008-07-21T20:05:00.001-07:00

hi friends!!!!!!!! are u speculative about what these marsupials are? there are mammals which we are well aware of belonging to this particular class marsupials. i am talking about kangaroo which is now enumerated in the endangered species.....the most dazing animal characterized by a typical pouch using which animals carry their young ones!!! there are 266 species of marsupials of which the red kangaroos are the largest .......the other marsupials are Tasmanian devils,Virginia opossum,numbat,koalas,wombats, diprotodon,brush tail possums and cuscuses ,pygmy possums etc....

Origin:

Two different kind of theories exist based upon the fossil records of which neither is proven to be an authentic one...one theory states that these marsupials had their origin in north America and got dispersed through Europe to Asia ,Africa and then finally reaching south America...based upon the fossil details obtained in new guinea its stated that they travelled the reverse path from south to north.....these omnipotent mammals are not omnipresent...they are available now only in new guinea,Australia and America.Reproduction:

after the male and female marsupial mate,the egg develops in the female foetus (its different from others by having two Virginia).after 30 days the young one with developed fore limbs and mouth is transferred to the pouch....unlike other mammals they don't carry their young ones until they develop all organs,instead they carry in their pouch until the young ones develop all organs and are ready to encounter their own prey....the young one of kangaroo are called joey which weigh only 800mg during birth...

kangaroos are considered as the Australian icon but with more of global warming and environmental degradation there are chances of oblivion of kangaroo from Australian history.

what swami vivekanandha says???

2008-07-21T06:21:00.000-07:00

hi friends this is a little passage about how swami Vivekananda felt about religions and Avram's:
one day after swamis return from east Bengal a disciple questioned about consciousness of religion in Bengal..swami answered that people are conservative and they have turned into fanatics trying to liberate in religion.........when speaking about sudden appearances of too many avatars on Bengal he replied that incarnations of god are not born anywhere and everywhere and at all kinds of seasons!!!!!!!!!!!!!he said people can believe about their guru's as avatars if they like it.
one day a young man brought a picture of someone and enquired whether he is an avatar or not to swami: he replied that he is doesn't know anything of it.... in spite of that when the boy pestered about the question swami told him to eat nourishing substances so that his brain will develop... and the boy left out with his question.......

nesting seasons of birds in INDIA

2008-07-20T01:20:00.000-07:00

hi friends!!!!!do u want to know when birds start their nesting?

Birds...the most amiable creature often brings the pleasure to live in this world though we struggle every moment of life to live.....it teaches us patience,love,support,defence and what not?(name as you like)they teach everything and anything u want to understand!!!!!

PATIENCE:birds patiently wait till march to build their nests i.e during the advent of spring, they start laying eggs and they complete their nests before the onset of south west monsoons!!!!!!!! this is a condition that exist in northern himalayas and the regions lying lower over them...moving further down the equator depending upon their local climatic conditions and geographical positions these residental birds complete their nesting before june!!!!!!!!
REARING:

from june till febrauary the birds will be busy bringing up their family of young ones because this season would be the time the flora would be ravishing and insects will be available in abundant due to the monsoons....these birds of prey will bring food to the young ones and feed them and protect them untill they learn to find their own prey!!!!!!

PALISADE:

usually the breeding pairs occupy a particular geographical location called territory. the males usually occupy a particular place and keeps a boundary to which it doesnot even allow its own species and they shooes away other birds staying in that location.they build the nest carefully in the location and then waits for any imminent danger then it will call its family members to their territory...

LOVE:bird don't have a partner then its starts singing to attract the female birds.they start to welcome the female ones by fluffing out their ornamental plumage,erecting their tails and feathers,dancing like peacocks(note:they do a lot!!!! get ideas from them if u want)..... the song which they sing will not only attract females but will keep the other males at bay....(they are smart and cute!!!!)
PIED EGGS:

the colouration of the eggs will always depend upon the colours of the nesti.e the environment in which the eggs are laid!!!!! if they are laid in sand then they will be in dusky color.the coloring depends upon the architecture of nests and their parents too!!!!!!

there are various types of nests like pendant nests,twig nests,woven ablong purse,cup and domes shaped nests and so many uncountable!!!!!!!!!!!

these birds are the most loving when loved!!!!!!!

adventure of John Fitzgerald kennedy(JFK)

2008-07-19T07:32:00.000-07:00

The 35th president of united states was renowned for his audacious demeanor who lead his political carrier in a impervious manner untill assassinated by Oswald in 1963....during his early days he was a commander of Motor Torpedo Boat PT-109.during his days on military service he went through a adventure worth risking his life for his crew...
JFK along with his friend George barney Ross and 11 crew members where patrolling the blackett strait of the Solomon islands on the night of august 1943(during 2nd world war).....during that night time in order to minimize the sound and to avoid detection,the boat was driven with one engine rather than three...JFK saw that something was impending towards them but he was not sure of it...within a fraction of a second the thing so called"Japanese destroyer" hit the torpedo boat and imploded the boat into two....the news was wide spread and after few days a condolence meeting was held for the people of torpedo boat.....
do u think that's all about the adventure?
if yes then you are wrong!!!! the adventure starts here!!!!!

after the destroyer passed away the crew members found themselves clinging to one side of the boat just floating for the sake of living...both the engineers on the boat where badly hurt.....Kennedy who had been in the Harvard swimming team five years ago drove i n the water like a whale to get hold of McMahon(engineer who got hurt) who was 100 yards away from him..they where not able to admire the serenity of the sea!!!! as the sun rose on its horizon the Japanese were on guard in the islands surrounding the boat..so for the whole morning they were asked to stay low by their captain clinging to the boats..when the island three miles from north was emptied of Japanese troops. they started to swim to reach the island..JFK carried the wounded engineer along with him while he swam through the water...then for two days they had been merely searching for food to live..Ross and JFK used to go in turns along the Ferguson passage to find some boat to reach the shore...but misfortune followed them all along...they sent a note through some of the natives of the island(bird island) in which they went to search for food.finally the help came from New Zealand officer who was patrolling in Georgia.the natives helped them to reach Georgia and finally the crew of torpedo boat was rescued due to the bravery of JFK and his friend Ross...

ETYMOLOGY OF TUXEDO

2008-07-17T09:20:00.001-07:00

hi friends this is going to be a new column of my blog...here i will discuss about the history of a word...today lets discuss about "TUXEDO-POLITE NAME FOR WOLF"

"think of the devil and devil apperas before" is an old adage....during olden times,for this particular reason the barbarians and the mountain tribes use to put names under disguise for things which they fear the most!!!!! in a dialect of an delaware indian ,for instance,a wolf was not called a wolf.they thought it would be treacherous to spell them out...so instead they called by the name p'tuksit(which means he has a round foot) which was their best way of avoiding the direct mention to the beast.....from p'tuksit the name tuxedo was derived which later gave the name for tuxedo shirts often wore on formal dinner occasions......

you would have heard the same in HARRY POTTER where the villain VOLDEMORT being feared by all would be called as "YOU KNOW WHO?"........isn't that interesting !!!!! there is some more to go.....
(1)the delawares of eastern north america belonged to one of the three groups whose tribes(totems) where the turtle,the turkey,and the wolf..... the wolf was later called as p'tuksit....
(2) way back may be in 1814, a farmer called"pierre lorillard" along with his grandson bought the land around tuxedo lake which is 40 miles away from the city of new york.....
(3) later,say eight years, the land acquired became an exclusive residential colony.
(4) after some time it became a prestigious socially important tuxedo park which paved way for the tuxedo men's dinner coats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

nice one to hang out!!!!!

2008-07-16T16:49:00.000-07:00

hi friends !!!!! is your itinerary failing you for the first time?do u want to know where to hang out for a holiday...its so diaphanous that india would be the best place where we can plan with a nadir amount of budget and enjoy to an unmeasurable parameter which will never let you pall.

KHANDALA-A HILL STATION IN MAHARASHTRA

fig (1) bhuja caves fig(2) Lonavala & Khandala

a cool hill station to triple your joys and halve your sorrows...the khandala hill station offers panoramic view of the evergreen environs around it.its positioned on the upper part of bhor ghat estranged from deccan plateau and konkan plain. its an charming place with its beauty widesrpead around it.the other places that you can visit during your tour include lonavala mountain 5 km away, Tugauli and Bhushi lake,karla and bhaja caves 16 km away!!!!! lonavala lake and khandala exemplifies the ravishness of nature!!!!!!so if you just take your travelleing set and bag along with you u are thrown open to the beauty of khandala hill station!!!!!!

one more hot spot near khandala is Amruntanjan point (not the balm) which is pied with green and brown......

khandla has a great history to be adored!!!it has been transferred from hand to hand before it reached its scenic beauty flourishing now..... it was passed from the great hands of Ashoka,Shalivahan,muhamad bin-tuglah,later on to chatrapathi shivaji and then to us ,from which we still enjoy the invincible khandla hill station!!!!!!!!!!!!

ps:if anyone has visited just give a tip how much u spent so that i can plan in advance!!!!!

amoral issues of cognitive disability

2008-07-15T07:13:00.000-07:00

hi friends i thought of cognitive disability on seeing a asylum hospital near menambakkam..actually in late nineties connotations which were abysmal like idiot,imbecile,cretin,moron etc.... were used against mentally challenged people ,by people who depicit themselves as mentally strong!!!!!! after lot of people ,fought for it now they are called mentally challenged people or ppl with intelluctual disability....ppl who are unable to comprehend the ails of our fellow human beings are considered to be filled with hubris. lacking humility will show us as a misanthropist......In India and even in other foriegn countries organisations have been established for the welfare of ppl suffering frm cognitive disability!!!

do u all want to know about these organisations:
(1) National Handicapped Finance and Development Corporation (NHFDC) was set up by the Ministry of Social Justice & Empowerment, Government of India in January 1997.
The company is a non profit organisation which has been registered under companies act ,1956(section 25)
Their main objective is to promote economic development opportunities and self employment chances for ppl with disability. this organisation is entirely owned by government of india and they are given a capital of 400 crores.......
apart from them other govt organisations like dakshinya,saritsa,libenshilfe are also helping the mentally challenged people to overcome their problems and to assist them in leadng a normal life!!!!!!!!!!!! though there are many organisations and groups willing to help them ,it would be better if we understand our fellow ppl and treat them with geniality.......

Silence exhibiting Serenity

2008-07-12T21:50:00.000-07:00

hi friends!! something strange to visualise but can be felt always around...the one iam talking about is silence within your heart and outside your soul....let me enumerate the things which u would have felt during silence!!!!!
(1) have you ever felt the need to sit alone in a closed room?
(2) sometimes you want to cry loudly hiding it from the knowledge of people around
(3)when there is no one at home, you will stand before the mirror and talk non sense about your positives and negatives....they will concern mostly how u look like
(4) suddenly some day you will put your mobile under silence and u will sit as if you want to restrain your self from picking it up( the mobile sounds are irritating)!!!!!!
(5) when there is a disussion going on among your friends and you have a different opinion from all of them, then u will maintain a small silence before giving out your own idea!!!!!have you felt that small silence?
(6) on seeing a flower mostly roses,daisies,sunflowers have you ever felt the need to look at them with serenity atleast for a minute?
(7) anything related to nature it may be a suicide point on a mountain,drizzling rain drops,dew drops on roses, honey bee on sunflower,a kid playing on the road!!!!!!!!the list goes on ...have u ever felt like u can give up your life for these things??????????
if you have felt any of these do reply!!!!!!!!!!!!1

A Review of 1943 classic

2008-07-12T12:06:00.001-07:00

hi friends!!!!!it has been along time since i laid my hand on a classic...what i always thought was that it was not my cup of tea..but i openly confess that i have fallen pray to a classic novel called"THE FOUNTAIN HEAD" BY "AYNRAND".it was a book given to me one and half years back by my friend sumi...i didnt touch it for a long time..i never thought i would in this eternity...but two days back i started it..iam a slow reader(because i reread the lines again and again for mere satisfaction) and i completed today at 12.40a.m. it was stated as classic but i didnt feel any classic nature in it!!!!its a book about an architect (Howard Roark) who is been fought by people to destroy in a war which he will never fight,which he will never even think of!!!!!!!!!!!ppl trying to tore him to pieces which is a mission impossible at any rate!!!he is a man of egoism and altruism!!!!!!!!!! do u find the words contradictory then try to get a copy of the book....read as i read madly deeply ..you may feel what i felt after all...iam not good at reviews so i will leave like this to your wish to say 'yes' or 'no' to the book...i forgot about mrs.Roark (which i did knowingly) a lady of explosion whom you will need some time to forget!!!!!!!! the book says being egostic is not sinful rather than being altruistic!!!!!!so watch out for the book if u can.....

EGO- want to hear about it?????????????

2008-07-12T12:06:00.000-07:00

Have you heard of all these"egocentric,egotistic,egotist,egomaniac"and so many nearer words if you could spare time to know from your dictionary!!!!!!well thats not all...want to know what it is? its EMOTIONS that are not let GO,will never be let go untill we realize the truth that we can always let go our emotions easily just by saying 'yes' or 'no' whenever, wherever we need them...if you want to confess ,confess at the rate of your soul ,cry if you want to,laugh if u want to,destroy if you want to ,love if you want to,dont wait for reaction from others!!!!!!they will definitely will not give what you want because they have been deprived it for a longer time!!!!!!they are just mirrors trying to imply your thoughts!!!don't worry about the opposition worry about your position.......if you want it say yes else no!!!!!! dont bring about stunts to prove your self,your egoism which matters to none in this egotistic world!!!!!try to be estranged from them!!!!learn that you are not alone in your quest ,u will ahve ppl following you sometimes later! finally i say one thing dont hold back your emotions, let them flow !!!!!!!!!you will undersatnd that you are not egotistic

"what swami vivekananda says"

2008-07-08T00:03:00.001-07:00

hi friends!!!here is a post that that will help you comprehend the sayings of swami vivekanada....
on one fine day swami vivekananda was questioned by his disciple as follows:
"what is the necessity of doing good to others?"
vivekanada said" its necessary for the betterment of ones own self.if we start thinking about our body and soul as dedicated ones to the service of others then we not fall pray to our ego!!!!the more you think profoundly about the well being of your fellow beings,the more you will become oblivious of your self...doing this for a considerable amount of time will not only purify your heart but will also make you feel the truth....finally you will come to the stage of god-realization and self-realization....
ARISE,AWAKE,SLEEP NO MORE..................

flora and fuana being jeopardised

2008-07-05T06:19:00.000-07:00

( fig shows vanda )

since the inception of life on earth, man has started to decimate the earth in every possible way he could find....it has resulted in endangered species all over the world. human beings have not only brought them to extinct but also have created global warming which will begun the extinct of humans.......we have never delved into this matter due to our delusion that global warming and extinct of endangered species ( the duo ) do not form a link.we usually grouse about the flux in weather conditions and get accompanied with our day today activities......on one hand, the flora on earth is trimmed down by deforestation whereas in the other hand fauna is pulled down by wildlife hunting!!!!!!!!!! these factors lead to the emergence of pollution bringing about increase in co2 levels causing global warming.....

(*) Its estimated that over the next 20 yrs nearly half a million species will become extinct.......

some of the endangered species in flora and fauna are:

FLORA:

Vanda coerulea------------------blue vanda(INDIA)

Sarracenia oreeophilla-----------green pitcher plant(u s a)

Saintpaulia ionantha-------------african violet( east africa)

Dracaena draco------------------drago or canadian dragon tree(canary islands)

FAUNA:

Javan rhinoceros(south east asia)

Blue whale(antartic ocean)

Giant panda(china)

woolly spider monkey(Brazil)

if you don't want these flora and fauna pied with vibrant colours from being extinct then help preventing global warming by reducing pollution and keeping the environment clean!!!!!!!!

enigmatic discussion

2008-06-29T07:00:00.000-07:00

hi friends !!!!!today iam going to talk about things that happen in our everyday life..have you ever pondered over things like this!!!!!!

(1) some times when u are driving or walking along the road you will find that people are staring at you or your raiment(mostly Ur clothing!!!!!!!) as if it has been torn at a place where it should not have been.........to me they are all meddlesome creatures staring at our privacy

(2) when you go to some new place you will feel like u have been to that place already!!!!!!!!! some ppl will say you have gone insane!!!!!!! some other ppl are saying that they are thoughts from your last birth.......

(3) sometimes you would have been praised for things which you never did wholesome and some times you would have been rebuked for things you don't even know!!!!!!!(i have lots of experience with this!)

(4)if you get disappointed by something(mostly love and exams) you will try to be reclusive!!!!!which is not a better option,,,,,,try this out!!!!gather more ppl around you so that you will feel heavenly!!!!!!!!!

(5) though you have scads of clothes,ornaments,cosmetics(all non sense!!!!!!!! that doesn't make sense to your life) you will always envy things of your neighbours,ppl whom you watch outside, and you will consider that you have been deprived of that wealth............... all the same jealous!!!

(6) sometimes when you see a girl/boy you feel like your life depends on him!!!!!!!!!it may be for a second during your journey in bus,train or while you walk!!!!!!if you feel like that respond to your feelings......don't sit and mull over it later!!!!!!!!!!

(6) rarely but occasionally(what am i confusing!!!!!!!!! yes) you want to help some one on the road...it may be a old lady crossing the road,a small dog (unaware of traffic and stupid ppl) standing in middle of the road unable to move, a boy whose things have fallen down from bike, a person who has fell down from bike due to a minor accident!!!! all these times you want to help but you wont!!!! sometimes you may running out of time,sometimes u will try to help but b4 that someone would do it!!! i want to say only one thing" be first to help and last one to run away"

to recapitulate the above said things!!!!!!!!! you will feel them,find them ,mostly in recurrent attacks on a daily basis!!!!!!!!!

PS:if you have experienced any of these or other than this share with me!!!!!!!

"Murder on the run"

2008-06-23T03:37:00.000-07:00

hi friends!!!!!!!i have been on a tour to thirupathi recently as a three day visit.well it was a strange experience altogether.we left chennai by thursday night and reached there on friday morning.we went for darshan in thirumalai and returned back to thirupathi to visit some of the local temples....when we came down on saturday it was eleven already so we didnt get rooms to stay...we had to wait in a long queue to get a room in thirupathi devasthanam chatram.only two kind of rooms are available there.its either free or for 50 rupees.depending upon the vacancy the rooms will be given.T.T.C contains three blocks.in the second block u need to wait to get tickets.we waited for nearly 3 hrs and then we went to third block and kept our things under a tree. we started cooking there by getting provisions and gas for rent.we were actually a group of 10 ppl and 4 kids so it was easy to make out things possible!!!!!!!
now the actual suspense story starts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! we got the room by 6 O'clock in the first block.so we have once again move our things to room no.252 on the first block.when i went to that room with a small bag my cousin brother dinesh(age:10) also accompanied me.on the way he told me that he has also a key to open the room.i just laughed and coaxed him to walk fast.when i reached the first block my dad was waiting for me.i got the room key and we were ready to walk when my brother showed us the key that he mentioned to me on the way.i was shocked that he is holding someones key.its key no.588.it had a strap blood red in colour.he told us that he picked it up on the place we were cooking.so my dad immediately gave it to the respective authority on the second block at 5 o'clock.then we got settled altogether on the room by 6 O'clock.we had our dinner and we were about to sleep.at that time we heard a knock at the door.my uncle got up to open the door but the knock became thrashing and it sounded louder.we all got up and sat and my uncle opened the door.what u think we saw outside.............police!!!!!!! they were asking for my dad in telugu.they immediately asked him to come to the counter in the second block!!!!!we were all shocked and we followed him but they stopped us in mid way and told us not to come.then we waited for half an hour and my dad returned back with a sour face. we enquired to him about the things that has happened!!!!!!!guess what!!!!!!! a cold blooded murder in room no.558. a girl has been murdered by someone on that room and the key has been thrown out on the way.the motive of the murder was not revealed(i think its not found yet!!!!!!!)they have questioned my dad whether he knew anything about the murderers.fortunately when my dad hand over ed the key he had explained it to the officer who is a tamilian..so he had told the police and gave assurance that my dad would not have any link with this...so they went away after getting the address of the ppl who stayed there in room no.558.after my dad explained this everyone criticized my cousin for picking up the key!!!!!!!!!it was a terrific experience!!!!!!

"In Chennai should we obey rules"

2008-06-18T10:10:00.000-07:00

hi friends!!!!!! today was a terrible day altogether!!!!!i was coming home from Gre class today night by 8.15.on seeing the yellow signal as a good educated person i let down my accelerator down and in the mean time it glowed red.unfortunately the bus which was coming behind me put a sudden break to prevent his bus from hitting me.And for the whole bus and the road to watch he made a big scene saying that i should have left on seeing yellow rather than applying break to my bike..i told him i obeyed the rules and i stopped.he told me that "on seeing you i thought you would cross so that even i can cross along with you" isn't this pretty bad..a bike would take 2 secs to cross but a bus full of People will take some little more time than this...if he had crossed than people who were shown green signal would suffer right...but when i told this to my dad he is saying its better to follow the situation rather than signals....if by mistake the driver had lost his control today then i would not be sitting here writing a blog about how things are run in cities...
once in anna nagar a man did the same...he waited on seeing the yellow signal ,but a lorry which came in full speed thrashed him down and he is no more now!!!!! so friends kindly follow the rules but dont forget that there are many still out there who doesnt know that there are rules to be followed... so act by judging the situation around you...well this works not with traffic alone!!!!!!!!

"Are u going CRAZY" try this out!!!!!!!!!

2008-06-17T10:47:00.000-07:00

Hi friends this is going to be something helpful for us soon after we join our companies…have u heard about a 100 year old medicine still in practice among the modern therapeutics.
Do u want to know what it does?????

Acts as sedative in the treatment of insomnia (sleep disorder), hypochondria (abnormal anxiety), mental disorders and insanity.
It helps in curing skin disorders like psoriasis, excessive etching.
Gynaecological ailments like menopausal syndrome.
Reducing BP in hyperplesis.its considered a great boon for BP patients.
It also controls irregular or rapid heart action.
It’s an antidote against snake bite and insect stings…

HISTORY:
Are u doubtful about its medicinal uses? Here are some literary proofs:
This plant is mentioned in ancient literatures and in works of CHARAKA(1000-800 B.C) described in its Sanskrit name “ sarpagandha”

FAMILY:
Botanical name: Rauvolfia serpentine
Family: Apocynaceae
Hindi: Sarpagandha
Tamil: Chivan amelpodi
Trade: Rauvolfia
Habitat: tropical Himalayas, Assam Sikkim, along the ghats to
Travancore and kerala

REAL STORIES ABOUT THE PLANT:
Mongoose would first chew upon this plant leaves to gain strength before engaging a cobra in combat.
The leaves when freshly grounded and applied to snake bite serves as a best anti dote.
A mentally retarded person is relieved from his madness if he consumes the pieces of roots of the plant…

Only due to this reason in India we call this plant as "pagal-ki-dava"

"Secret behind Invisibility"

2008-06-15T10:22:00.000-07:00

Hi friends!!!!!!!Do u want to become invisible try this out. There is no need for you to be a descendant of ignotus (Harry potter’s forefather)...u can become invisible like Harry potter and can enjoy the liberty of meeting your girl/boy friend …..It’s developed by university of Tokyo based upon optical camouflage (disguise) technology. You will be surprised to learn the principle behind it. It’s called Augmented Reality… (Want to know about it go through my previous post)

You just need five things to become invisible….they are
A retro reflective garment
A video camera
Computer
Projector
Combiner
Whenever u wear the cloak its not like you are invisible, but the observer who is watching you will be able to see your background through the cloak...(1) the image behind u will be captured through a camera (2) the captured image is sent to u computer which employs augmented reality which will impose this image on the real world scene.(3) the image processed will be sent to a projector which projects it through a combiner(which is a mirror half-silvered and half-transparent) on the cloak..So as a result we will be able to see the background over the cloak…so simple naaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"TECHIEEE"

2008-06-14T08:30:00.000-07:00

Hi friends iam going to explain u a technological concept..
Augmented reality:
Using syatems which use augmented reality users will be able to see a real worls scene enhanced with graphics.it adds computer generated info to human sensory perceptions.it not only adds graphics,sounds,haptics(sense of touch),smells tp the natural world.when u look a street through syatems employing augmented reality(can be a pair of glasses in mere future) u will get some additional helpful data regarding the street..for example a roadside restaurants menu,no of shows of a theatre on that road, no of people inside a shop,exact address of a particular shop,weather conditions of that area,etc,,they are not like virtual reality which replaces the real world..unless it adds extra information to the real world scene…it employs three main components:
Ø Head mounted display(just like monitors that shows the real world superimposed with graphics)
Ø Tracking system(to track down detail of that particular place GPS(Global Positioning Systems)cover distance about 10 to 30 metreswhich will not be useful in case of augmented reality hence,HIBALL TRACKING SYSTEM using Optoelectronic device is created to detect data within 500 square feet…
Ø Mobile computing power(to create stereo 3D graphics)
This is the principle of augmented reality!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"love your right to donate ur sight"

2008-06-13T11:36:00.000-07:00

Hi friends!!! I have a nice topic to discuss today…it’s about donating our eyes when we die. Just by signing a agreement when you live can make someone see the world when we are dead…well u can see the world through them...anyway whether u are burnt or buried your eyes are not going to be preserved ..it has to decay or get burnt into ashes…ashes which when donated before death can become vision to our fellow human beings….instead of pointing your hands to the side of spirituality for denying this rightful action why not point your legs to a eye hospital to donate your eyes. I have already signed the papers...hope you all do it…do u want to know some interesting facts on eyes, here they are:
1. women blinks twice as many times as men do/
2. When they are in right state they can detect with sense, a light of a candle at distance of 14 miles...
3. Once upon a time there was a rumor among sailors that if u were gold earring Ur eyesight will improve... (Nice nah…)
4. Men can read small prints better than women…
5. If u r a blue-eyed person then u seems to be lucky because they can see better than brown eyed persons...

"Get Light during Night"

2008-06-12T09:23:00.000-07:00

Have you anywhere heard of such thing!!!!!Well it’s common among people who live in higher altitudes. Am speaking abt Seasonal Affective Disorder. Its so sad that we all don’t know about S.A.D.
When light passes through our eyes a chemical called serotonin is released into the brain .the purpose of serotonin is that it acts as neuro transmitter bringing nerve cells together.
So during WINTER, where there is less daylight there is decrease in serotonin levels and there will be increase in another hormone called melatonin. Melatonin helps in sleeping process. It’s mostly released during night hours when there is no daylight….
Do u understand why we feel sleepy during winter times!!!!!!!
Its all because of melatonin and serotonin……….
Its main symptoms is getting up late in morning (don’t worry it doesn’t suit for ppl who are awake whole night)

"accidental love"

2008-06-11T09:55:00.000-07:00

Hi friends!!!!!Today I have something interesting to share with you people. What we all think (sorry feel) about love differs from person to person. We have seen many movies focusing on how love starts…ya mostly the appropriate answer is it starts in eyes and some say it starts from heart. I have seen in a movie where they speak about shadow love too… (Ha ha ha) well don’t try out for shadow love,then u have to face the consequences in light...
Though we all know where it starts, we never know where it ends. But we know the reasons for a true love to end. It may be through money, parents, religion, sometimes the most comical one, that is through lovers…. do u want to know where love ends for all of us!!!!!!!!! For a boy it ends in another girl...and for a girl it ends in misery. So girls be awake!!!If we want to hold preeminent positions in this world hurry up!!
PS: the above things are for certain lovers (others can continue loving each other)
Let this world cherish due to loveeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!

Are u ready to wait???

2008-06-09T00:35:00.000-07:00

Hey friends!!!!!! Suddenly I got confusion whether we are educated or not? Well it occurred to me while I was waiting in the signal yesterday. Actually the yellow signal signal denotes that we have to stop and let down our accelerator down. But what we actually do is a complete stupidity??On seeing the yellow light we use to raise the accelerator and escape the signal. I agree that even I was doing this till yesterday!!!

An old man who is drunk (another huge crime,,, anyways let us not get into it) was crossing the road .when he was half way down the road, signal become green. thank god he stopped in mid road…(wait don’t thank god always)he crossed on seeing the yellow signal and a car which came at 80 hit that 60 year old man…finally there was blood all over which was the last thing I saw in that place,,,I could not stand it any more yaar. So friends let us all obey rules at least for the sake of others and wait after seeing the yellow light. It’s not going to take more than one minute but if don’t we may lose a life on earth which may not be your dear one...But remember that the person will dearer to someone else…and Ur dearer ones may be on the list someday (lets hope not!!!!!!)…

International Coral Reef Year - 2008

2008-01-31T05:59:00.000-08:00

photograph showing the internal structures of real Coral reef

displayed in the exhibition

In order to create awareness about extinction of coral reefs an exhibition was kicked off at Egmore museum on 23rd january. Coral reefs are structures made up of calcium carbonate ,which photosynthesize with help of their symbiotic relationship with single celled algae.Coral reefs supports the marine ecosystem by being the dwelling house for variety of aquatic living organisms like sponges,worms,sea turtles,sea snakes,lobsters and crabs. It's expected that coral reefs will extinct within 50 years due to the effect of global warming and pollution .Especially in south east asia 80% of the reefs are considered endangered.Its mainly due to human activities that these exquisite corals are in the verge of extinction. let us all join hands to prevent their extinction by creating awareness among people.

"Continuity is at the heart of conservatism: ecology serves that heart."

''lights-out"

2008-01-27T09:14:00.000-08:00

It's time for chennai people to show their true spirit by rendering a helping hand to promote awareness about global warming.Exnora international is organising a 'lights-out'campaign on may 1st between 7 and 8 p.m. we are requested to switch off lights,fans,air conditioners,electrical appliances(including idiot box)at our home as a symbolic representation.people of london,paris,sydney and mumbai have actively taken part in this campaign and they have saved 750mw of electricity each.Being great madrasis we should actively take part and show our strength to this world.

"how many cares one loses when one decides not to be something but to be someone"